Episode Summary:

In today’s episode of *Rise and Reclaim After Divorce*, we explore the challenge of facing the holiday season after divorce. The first holidays post-divorce can be especially painful, filled with memories of what was and the uncertainty of what’s to come. Host Dana shares her personal journey of building new traditions and creating a fresh start for herself and her children, despite the heartache.

Key Points Discussed

• The Power of New Traditions
• Faith and Hope with Jer 29:11
• Practical Steps to Build New Traditions
• You’re Not Alone

If you need extra encouragement, a listening ear, or a prayer partner this holiday season, I invite you to reach out. Email her at dana@redeemed-identity.com.

We are the fragrance of Christ,

Dana

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In Episode 28, we continue the conversation with Peggy Hurd, a licensed marriage and family therapist, who has been instrumental in my healing journey through separation and divorce. Peggy, with over 51 years of marriage, and the wisdom of being a mom of two and a grandmother of two, returns to further unpack the complex topic of abuse in marriage.

In this episode, we focus on two important and often misunderstood aspects of marital abuse:

- Spiritual Abuse: The misuse of religion, faith, or spiritual authority to manipulate or control a spouse.

- Sexual Abuse within Marriage: Addressing non-consensual sexual experiences and violations within the context of marriage.

Peggy shares her professional insights and offers practical advice on recognizing these behaviors and beginning the process of healing. Through our conversation, we hope to shine a light on the nuanced forms of abuse and empower listeners to rise and reclaim their lives after divorce.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

1. What constitutes spiritual abuse in a marriage and how it manifests.
2. Understanding sexual abuse within marriage and the importance of recognizing boundaries, even in intimate relationships.
3. Signs to look out for if you suspect you or someone you know is experiencing these forms of abuse.
4. Tips on how to start the healing process and reclaim your personal power.

Listen to Part 1 of the conversation (Episode 27) if you missed the introduction to this series. Peggy’s personal and professional insights offer encouragement and clarity for those on the path to emotional freedom.

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You can email me at: Dana@redeemed-identity.com.

We are the fragrance of Christ,

Dana

Find me on Social Media:

https://www.facebook.com/redeemidentity/

https://www.instagram.com/redeemidentity

My Free ebook, "Who Am I After Divorce?" can be downloaded here:https://dl.bookfunnel.com/4k769kpebf

Website and Blog link:

https://redeemed-identity.com/blog/

RESOURCES MENTIONED:

The Divorced Christian, Pastor Darius Good

The Emotionally Destructive Marriage, Leslie

Episode Summary:

In this special episode, I’m joined by a very important guest—Peggy Hurd, a licensed marriage and family therapist who played a key role in my healing journey during my separation and divorce. With over 51 years of marriage experience, Peggy brings a wealth of knowledge as both a therapist and a wife, mom of two, and grandma of two.

This episode kicks off a powerful series where we break down the different forms of abuse—starting today with emotional and financial abuse. We also dive into the concept of gaslighting, a manipulative tactic often linked to emotional abuse. I get candid about my personal experiences, sharing how I coped with childhood sexual abuse and how I survived through the most challenging times of my life.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

- Definitions and types of emotional and financial abuse

- How gaslighting plays a role in emotional abuse

- Real-life strategies for coping and healing from abuse

- Insights from Peggy’s 51 years of marriage and her professional expertise

- My personal journey through trauma, healing, and survival

Key Takeaways:

- Abuse can take many forms beyond the physical. Recognizing emotional and financial abuse is the first step toward healing.

- Gaslighting can leave victims questioning their reality, making emotional abuse even more damaging.

- Healing is a journey, not a destination. Sharing our stories and learning from others is part of reclaiming our identity and power.

- You are not alone. Support from trusted individuals, including professionals like Peggy, can be life-changing.

Meet Peggy Hurd:

- Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist

- Married for 51 years

- Mom of 2, Grandma of 2

If you’ve experienced emotional or financial abuse, know that healing is possible. Start by recognizing the signs and reaching out for support.

Join the conversation! Connect with us on social media and share your story using the hashtag #RiseAndReclaim.

Thank you for listening! Don’t forget to subscribe, leave a review, and share this episode with someone who needs to hear it.

You can email me at: Dana@redeemed-identity.com.

We are the fragrance of Christ,

Dana

Find me on Social Media:

https://www.facebook.com/redeemidentity/

https://www.instagram.com/redeemidentity

My Free ebook, "Who Am I After Divorce?" can be downloaded here:https://dl.bookfunnel.com/4k769kpebf

Website and Blog link:

https://redeemed-identity.com/blog/

RESOURCES MENTIONED:

The Divorced Christian, Pastor Darius Good

The Emotionally Destructive Marriage, Leslie Vernick