• 26. Hasta luego- some final reflections with Tom
    Jul 12 2023

    In this episode of the Recipe to the Road podcast I reflect on the last 14 months in Mexico and Central America. My partner Tom joins me as we unpack our highs and lows of the last year. We talk about preconceptions versus reality, an honest reflection on budget, what we’ve learned, the male and female experience, hitchhiking and our biggest lessons from the road. 

    This is the last episode of season 1. Thank you all for listening and for being so lovely and encouraging.  

    Latin America - preconceptions versus reality 

    • Tom says it is way safer than what you hear. 

    • On TV shows it seems very different to real life 

    • Way more indigenous people and different culture than I’d have thought from what you see on TV and hear 

    • Loads of dancing in Mexico but not so much in Central America- more marching bands 

    Budget reflections: 

    • Supermarkets are extortionate in CA, worse than Mexico which was also pricey, more than Ireland for some items

    • You need more money than you might think travelling here 

    • Tom notes that we were quite specific on where we stayed for wifi so that could have added to accommodation being expensive 

    • We also note that because I ate vegan and sometimes we wanted to eat healthy that was more expensive too.

    • Street food is the cheapest option if you don’t mind about diet. 

    Biggest things we’ve realised  

    • Maria: privilege is more than money. Growing up with opportunities and education is a huge privilege. 

    • White privilege is a big thing- such as being treated differently at checkpoints and borders  

    • Tom: People are generally really nice and decent. 

    Experience as a woman versus a man 

    • In some countries I experienced sexism and being treated differently to Tom. 

    • People would address Tom and not me in conversations. 

    • When I was alone men would shout “Hey baby” or whistle or make other sounds if they are with other men

    • In Belize men would often approach me but it felt a lot more respectful. They were usually alone and it felt more like they put women on a pedestal rather than seeing us as something less than. 

    • Male experience: nothing ever happened. Tom also notes that because he has a beard he is perceived as a bit rough or messy in Latin American countries. 

    Hitchhiking

    • Not something we planned but just sort of did it when it was convenient 

    • It seemed really safe and the people were lovely. 

    • It was a great way to practise Spanish because people who pick up hitchhikers are interested in chatting to you

    Challenges we faced travelling that led to growth 

    • For me: fear and germs 

    • For Tom: Getting used to being unsettled. 

    • As a couple: being together all the time and working together in the same small spaces 

    Maria does quick fire round:

    • Fav country - El Salvador

    • Fav accom- Zephyr lodge in Lanquin, Guatemala

    • Fav food - Mango y Chile Tacos in Bacalar 

    • Fav memory - Valladolid pride 

    Links and info

    Tom and my other episodes together: Ep 12 & Ep 13

    My fav accommodations: Zephyr Lodge, Yuri’s place & Co.404

    The best taco: Mango y Chile

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  • 25. Denny in Belize
    Jul 5 2023

    In this episode of Recipe to the Road, I had the pleasure of interviewing Dennis Morrisseau, an 80-year-old man from Vermont in the US who is temporarily living in a hostel in Hopkins, Belize. Dennis has led a fascinating life, and I was excited to hear his stories, including his experiences protesting the Vietnam War and his travels throughout the Caribbean, Europe and hitchhiking to San Francisco. 

    We also talked about his interest in aesthetics and design and how it influenced his restaurant in Vermont. Dennis expressed his love for colourful and artistic environments, preferring them over sterile ones.

    Permaculture and sustainable agriculture in Belize 

    Dennis shared his involvement in a project in Belize where he will be practising permaculture on 80 acres of land. Permaculture is a method of agriculture that involves planting a variety of plants together to support each other and enrich the soil, eliminating the need for fertilisers and pesticides. Dennis emphasised the importance of moving away from monoculture and towards a more natural ecosystem in agriculture.

    Opposition to the Vietnam war as an army officer 

    Dennis recounted his decision to speak out against the Vietnam War as an army officer in uniform. He described escalating his demonstrations, including speaking at a rally and standing in front of the White House with a sign. Dennis was eventually arrested and spent a night in jail before being processed out for Vietnam (spoiler alert: he didn’t end up going). 

    Corruption and money in American politics 

    During our conversation, Dennis told me about his experience running for congress three times. Despite facing opposition, he gained significant voter support but lacked financial resources. Dennis criticised the lack of transparency in political spending laws, stating that everyone cheats and breaks the law. He refused to file a financial report to shed light on the issue, firmly believing that big money controls politics in America.

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  • 24. Teaching English abroad with Ebony
    Jun 28 2023
    In this episode of Recipe to the Road, I chat to Ebony, a teacher and creator. Ebony shares her experiences as the first person in her family to embark on international adventures. We discuss her solo trip to Bali which she says changed her life, teaching English in South Korea and Somaliland and her unexpected stay in South Africa during the COVID-19 pandemic.  Being the first in her family to travel Ebony takes us back to her roots, with her family hailing from New Jersey and New York for generations. She shares how she is the first in her family. For this reason her family don’t fully understand her lifestyle and often worry about her. But she thinks they are probably proud too.  Finding pure joy in Bali Ebony reminisces about her first solo trip to Bali, Indonesia, while still working as a social worker in the US. She was able to take 2 weeks off work but says that was enough to change her life. She describes the overwhelming happiness she experienced in Bali, attributing it to the energy of pure joy, love, and gratitude that permeated the island. Teaching English in South Korea In Bali Ebony met a South African woman who was teaching English in South Korea and Ebony decided to do the same.  She explains the process she went through to move to South Korea and start teaching English. She completed a TEFL (teach English as a foreign language) course online, specifically a 120-hour course with ITTT. Additionally, Ebony had to fulfil certain requirements specific to the South Korean program. She highlights the benefits of the South Korea EPIK (English Programme in Korea) programme, which covers housing, flights, pension, severance, and provides tax-free income for US citizens for two years.  Ebony encourages aspiring teachers to research and find a teaching English programme in the country they wish to explore. Backpacking in Africa and Europe After a year of teaching in South Korea, Ebony embarked on a backpacking adventure. She began her journey in Johannesburg, South Africa. Ebony spent about a year backpacking in Africa before travelling through Europe and eventually returning to the United States. Teaching in Somaliland  Following her time in South Africa, Ebony applied for a teaching job in Somaliland, an independent country formerly part of Somalia. Ebony shares the cultural differences she encountered in Somaliland, such as the reliance on camel milk as a source of hydration due to limited water in the desert region. She also highlights the challenges faced by women in the region, such as being married off by their parents from the ages of 7 or 8 in exchange for “stock” which could be camels or money. She says female genital mutilation is also a big part of the culture there. Education is a ticket out of the life set out for women by society.  Ebony adapted to a different way of life, including encounters with camel spiders in her room and bathing with rainwater. She returned to the US briefly and experienced a culture shock, realising the stark contrast between the capitalist society and the simplicity she had grown accustomed to while abroad. Embracing the journey and sharing stories Currently, Ebony travels as a storyteller, exploring Mexico and Central America. She loves connecting with local and indigenous people, sharing their stories through her YouTube channel. Ebony has also authored a book called "Computer Love" available on Amazon. Her biggest tip for travellers is to embrace the journey and remain open to new experiences. Ebony’s details:  YouTube: Eb's Migrations Blog: https://ebonysmigrations.wordpress.com/  Instagram: @ebs_migrations TikTok: @ebs_migrations Book: https://www.amazon.com/stores/Creativ-E-Press/author/B0BSNYGM1B?ref=ap_rdr&store_ref=ap_rdr&isDramIntegrated=true&shoppingPortalEnabled=true  Contact the show: recipetotheroad@gmail.com or @recipetotheroad on Instagram and Tiktok. Apply to be a guest: https://forms.gle/MbPYGzHxKQvCUfdt8 Podcast production: www.creativelycontenting.com --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/recipetotheroad/message
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  • 23. Living the dream in Puerto Escondido with Sandra and Eddie Pt 2
    Jun 21 2023

    In this episode of the Recipe to the Road podcast, I continue my conversation with Sandra and Eddie. Sandra and Eddie are the owners of Real Juquilita Hotel in Puerto Escondido. We discuss their vision of creating a hotel with a welcoming and artistic vibe and their longer term goals to replicate it in different locations. 

    This is part 2 of our conversation. In part one we spoke about how Sandra and Eddie met, lessons they’ve learned from travel and a bit about Sandra’s nonprofit. 

    Dreaming of owning a hotel in La Punta

    Sandra and Eddie share their inspiring story of how they ended up running a hotel and their vision for the future. They learned a lot about hotel administration from their experience as managers in another hostel, which gave them the confidence to pursue their dream of owning their own place. 

    They believe that luck and attracting positive things play a role in achieving their goals, and that commitment and hard work are necessary. They hope to eventually replicate what they have created in La Punta in other locations. 

    Tips for opening a hotel

    Sandra and Eddie share their tips and learnings from their experience of opening a hotel. For Sandra there is the added experience of doing so in a new country.  

    These tips include: 

    • Expanding your network

    • Understanding the culture and expectations

    • Being smart about opportunities

    They emphasise the importance of making a decision and going all in, even when doubts arise. They also discuss the importance of being in a good mental and emotional state to attract opportunities.

    Keys to success in running a hotel

    Sandra and Eddie have learned a lot in their experience in hospitality. For Sandra the most important part of running a hotel is treating guests well and making them feel at home. For Eddie it is important to be on top of the admin side of things, such as costs and turnover. Together their different skills complement each other. 

    Sandra and Eddie both emphasise the importance of being open to feedback.

    Creating a hotel/hostel vibe in La Punta

    Sandra and Eddie talk about the balance between relaxation and exploration in La Punta, and how they wanted to create a space where people can chill and stay for longer periods of time. They aimed to create a hotel/hostel vibe where guests can have the comfort of a hotel and the social atmosphere of a hostel. They also talk about their interest in bringing in more creative projects for guests to get involved in. 

    Book into Real Juquilita

    On Instagram: @realjuquilita

    On hostel world
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  • 22. Living the dream in Puerto Escondido with Sandra and Eddie Pt 1
    Jun 14 2023

    In this episode of the Recipe to the Road podcast I had the pleasure of chatting to Sandra and Eddie. Sandra is from France and Eddie is from Mexico and they run a hotel in Puerto Escondido, Mexico called Hotel Real Juquilita (Insta: @realjuquilita). 

    We discuss how Sandra and Eddie ended up in Puerto Escondido, how they met, Sandras homelessness non-profit and some of the lessons they have learned from their travels. 

    Eddie and Sandra's background and travel experiences

    Eddie is from Torreón, Mexico, but grew up in the United States until he was 13. He studied in Mexico City and later moved to Puerto Escondido, where he met Sandra. Sandra was born in France to parents from Egypt and Morocco. She grew up in Paris but frequently visited her parents' home countries. Before moving to Puerto Escondido, they travelled to the US, France, Portugal, Amsterdam, and Indonesia.

    Travelling and cultural understanding 

    Sandra discusses her background in travelling to different countries, including Egypt and Morocco, and how it inspired her to continue travelling. She also talks about the importance of understanding different cultures and how it can change one's perception of everyday life. Eddie mentions how meeting people from different cultures, particularly Sandra, has helped him see things in a different way and become more supportive of issues like poverty.

    Setting up a humanitarian association 

    Sandra talks about setting up a humanitarian association in Paris with friends to fundraise and provide food for those in need. The organisation is called Yes, We Care and Sandra was just 21 when she set it up. 

    How Sandra and Eddie met

    Sandra and Eddie share how Hotel Real Juquilita was a part of their story long before they owned it. Sandra stayed there for a few months when she first arrived in Puerto Escondido. She made friends with someone there who introduced her to Eddie. 

    Cultural differences in helping the homeless

    Sandra discusses her experiences with helping the homeless in Paris and how it can be difficult to understand their reality. She also talks about the prevalence of homelessness in big cities like Mexico City and Guadalajara, but notes that it is less common in tourist areas like Puerto Escondido.

    Eddie mentions the cultural differences in helping the homeless, citing Indonesia as an example where people are willing to offer their homes to those in need. He also notes the impact of religion on this behaviour. He mentions that people are not as charitable in Mexico and sometimes he feels like people like to pretend homeless people are not there. 

    However in natural disasters or in smaller towns people are more open to help. 

    Mexico city earthquake of 2017. 

    The Mexican earthquake of 2017 brought the people of Mexico together, with everyone helping each other out in the aftermath. People saved a lot of lives, and many others went out of their way to help those affected by the earthquake. The earthquake united the Mexican nation, Eddie believes, with people from other states sending medication and other supplies to Mexico City.

    Next week’s episode 

    This is part 1 of a 2 part episode. Next week we will focus on the business side of running a hotel.

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    33 mins
  • 21. Is Mexico...? FAQs about Mexico with Bryan Pt. 2
    Jun 7 2023

    Welcome to Recipe to the Road podcast! In this episode of the Recipe to the Road podcast, I dive into part 2 of my conversation with my good friend and knowledgeable sociologist Bryan to continue our journey to unravel the dynamics of Mexico. We talk more about the factors that contribute to Mexico being classified as a developing country. We also explore Mexican politics, the strong sense of community, the friendly and helpful nature of its people, the challenges of gentrification, and ways to travel consciously and respectfully in Mexico.

    Mexico as a developing country

    Bryan explains why Mexico is considered a developing country. We discuss the historical context, economic disparities, and social challenges that contribute to this classification. Despite being a popular tourist destination, Mexico faces significant economic gaps, with a portion of the population living below the poverty line. We explored the impact of these disparities on local communities and the importance of travellers being mindful of the economic differences they encounter when visiting Mexico.

    Mexican politics and the importance of community

    Bryan helps me better understand the political landscape in Mexico, explaining about the right wing party that was in power for almost 50 years and only recently got voted out. There is a left wing party in power now and people around the country are feeling like their voices are being heard.

    We explore the strong sense of community in Mexico. From close-knit neighbourhoods to cultural traditions and celebrations, community plays a central role in Mexican society.

    Friendly and helpful people in Mexico

    Bryan shared his experiences of encountering friendly and helpful individuals throughout his travels in Mexico. From receiving directions to striking up conversations with locals, he emphasises the genuine kindness that permeates Mexican culture. He highlights the value of embracing this hospitality and reciprocating it by respecting local customs, learning basic Spanish phrases, and approaching interactions with an open mind.

    Challenges of gentrification

    As areas become popular tourist destinations, locals are being displaced due to rising prices and in some places evictions. We discussed the importance of being conscious of these dynamics and seeking ways to support local businesses, artisans, and initiatives that prioritise cultural preservation and sustainable development.

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    31 mins
  • 20. Is Mexico...? FAQs about Mexico with Bryan
    May 31 2023

    In this episode of the Recipe to the Road podcast, I am joined by Bryan, an expert in Latin American sociology, as we explore the multifaceted nature of Mexico. We delve into topics such as safety, inequality, indigenous cultures, and Mexico's influence in Latin America. Throughout our discussion, we emphasise the importance of understanding Mexico's diverse perspectives, debunking stereotypes, and fostering empathy when travelling. Mexico's rich history, vibrant culture, and ongoing societal challenges serve as a compelling backdrop for our exploration.

    Join us as we unravel the complexity of Mexico and gain a deeper appreciation for its unique cultural and social dynamics.

    Is Mexico in Central America?

    This is the number 1 most frequently asked question on Google. And as Bryan confirms, the answer is no. It is considered part of Latin America though.

    We delve into the socio-cultural fabric of Mexico, exploring its vast influence in the Latin American region. Mexico's unique history and cultural heritage have left a lasting impact on neighbouring countries, shaping their traditions, cuisine, and social dynamics.

    Is Mexico city safe?

    Addressing the concerns of many a Google user around safety in Mexico City, we shed light on the city of 20 million inhabitants. While some areas may face safety challenges, Mexico also stands as a place where vibrant communities thrive, showcasing a strong sense of unity and helpfulness.

    Is Mexico a third world country?

    Bryan says yes it is, because of the inequality which is particularly noticeable in healthcare, education and in rural areas.

    Exploring the topic of inequality, we recognize the stark contrast between different socio-economic realities in Mexico. We shed light on the disparities that exist within the country. 

    Is Mexican an ethnicity?

    Quick answer is no. Diving into the intricate tapestry of ethnicity in Mexico, we discuss the rich diversity of indigenous cultures and their significant contributions to Mexican heritage. The Anthropology Museum in Mexico City serves as a captivating showcase of this vibrant history.

    Is Mexico safe?

    Returning to the topic of safety in Mexico, we highlight the importance of being cautious while travelling and respecting local communities. We discuss the friendliness and helpfulness of the locals, but stress the need for travellers to remain vigilant and aware of their surroundings.

    Is Mexico a developed country?

    Taking a broader perspective, we touch upon Mexico's development status as a country. Bryan confirms that despite some areas resembling European cities in appearance, they lack essential amenities and services. We examine the challenges and progress that Mexico has made in various sectors, such as infrastructure, public health, and transportation.

    Is Mexican a language?

    Yes, this is one of the most commonly asked questions on Google about Mexico. And for the record the answer is no.

    Is Mexico in the United States?

    Yep. This is also one of the most commonly asked questions. The answer, if anyone was confused, is no.

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    32 mins
  • 19. Top tips for travelling on a budget with Emma
    May 24 2023

    In this episode of Recipe to the Road, I had the pleasure of interviewing Emma, a world traveller who has mastered the art of exploring the world on a budget. She shares her experiences and insights on how to travel affordably without compromising on adventure. From her van life journey through British Columbia and Alberta in Canada to her extensive trips across Asia, Africa and Central America, Emma's stories are both inspiring and practical.

    Emma's experiences living in a van and exploring various parts of the world while keeping expenses in check demonstrate that with careful planning, resourcefulness, and a bit of adventure, anyone can embark on their dream travels without breaking the bank.

    Emma's travels

    Emma embarked on an incredible eight-month journey through the picturesque landscapes of British Columbia and Alberta, all while living in a van. She chose to stay in national parks, often opting for the solitude of camping on her own rather than paid campsites. She set up away from civilization, allowing her to fully immerse herself in nature and enjoy numerous hikes each day. Although not initially the fittest person, Emma gradually built up her stamina, hiking miles and miles every day.

    Emma's budget

    8 months van life in Canada:

    $125 CAD per month insurance

    $1,200 CAD for the van → sold it for a profit after

    $50 CAD for the national park pass

    Gas 400 km → $100 CAD

    14 months travelling Canada in a van and backpacking Central America- £12,000

    16 months backpacking in Asia and Africa- £10,000

    Safety and travelling as a woman

    When it comes to safety, Emma doesn't worry much, as she trusts her gut instincts and has a lot of experience travelling. She knows what to look out for and believes that people are mainly kind and generous. In fact, she has encountered numerous instances where locals went out of their way to help her. When Emma’s van broke down in Canada, people not only fixed the van but also brought her back to their house for a shower and dinner.

    Emma acknowledges that incidents can happen, especially as a woman travelling alone. She has encountered a small number of incidents where men attempted to kiss or touch her inappropriately. However, Emma has always been firm and assertive, standing up for herself when necessary. She even resorted to headbutting someone who tried to kiss her and punched another person who crossed the line by attempting to remove her shorts while she was on the beach. She emphasises the importance of setting boundaries and being prepared to defend oneself if needed.

    Tips for Travelling on a Budget

    Emma shares some valuable tips for travelling on a budget, which have helped her stretch her funds and make the most of her adventures. These tips include hitchhiking to save money on transportation, asking locals for their cheapest recommendations on accommodations and activities, avoiding expensive bars and restaurants in favour of local and affordable spots and engaging with locals who often offer to show her around for free or at a lower cost than professional tour guides. Emma also uses Skyscanner to find the cheapest flights, allowing her to maximise her travel experiences within her budget.


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    35 mins