Real and Raw with Ruby

By: Ruby Mendez
  • Summary

  • We're all just trying to figure it out, so let's figure it out together. I want to help you navigate what we call life by sharing what I've learned from experience, from others, and being vulnerable. Helping you elevate your mindset and perspective to be more abundant and open-minded in your business journey and in life. Let's get uncomfortable talking about the most common situations that most don't like to talk about. You'll be able to learn from guests on the podcast on topics like fears, challenges in building businesses, restarting, and reinventing themselves. This podcast is a platform to bring everybody together on the highs and lows of life so you don't have to feel alone. We're all in it together!
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Episodes
  • Becoming a Magnet of Attracting What You Deserve with Anna "La Chiri"
    Apr 30 2021

    Anna “La Chiri” is on the podcast and we’re talking about all things relationships, including the relationship you have with yourself and attracting what you are truly deserving of in life! Anna shares lessons from her childhood, having her daughter young, and how that gave her perspective on the relationships she wanted to attract into her life! From friendships, to career and attracting that perfect partner into your life, we dive into it all! 

     

    02:30 Meet Anna, aka “La Chiri”!

    04:00 Lessons from being an immigrant and working hard from a young age?

    07:15 How did having your daughter at 20 change your life?

    10:00 What was it like dealing with judgment from others when you were younger?

    12:40 How did you approach relationships differently as a single mom?

    14:50 As a woman, how do you get out of survival mode, heal, and thrive?

    17:00 What relationships do you attract when you show up in your masculine energy?

    21:15 The power of setting boundaries!

    25:00 How did you delay gratification and focus on long-term growth?

    30:30 What state of mind were you in when you met your husband?

    33:00 How did you meet your husband? 

    36:15 Do you feel like men need stability in certain areas to be ready for a relationship?

    39:00 How do you not self-sabotage when the right man does come along?

    41:40 What makes your relationship so healthy and how do you focus on that?

    45:00 The power of stepping into your feminine energy!

    47:15 How do you not lose yourself in a long-term relationship?

    49:00 What you focus on is what you will bring more of into your life?

    53:00 What is the one thing you hope listeners will take away from this episode?

     

    Follow Anna on Instagram | @chiriblissliving

     

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    Connect with Ruby on Instagram | @rubyecom



    Find out more and work with Ruby | https://lnk.bio/rubyecom

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    59 mins
  • How Our Childhood Upbringings Affected our Adulthood Dating with My Sister Gabby
    Apr 30 2021

    This episode is all about dating and relationships! Ruby and co-host/sister, Gabby, discuss their childhood relationships with their parents in today’s podcast! How much did their individual childhood experiences with love shape who they are today, and has that affected their present-day dating life for better or worse? This episode explores the reasons behind their abandonment issues, trust issues, and the compulsion to become the “fixer” in their relationships. But there’s always a positive side as Ruby and Gabby dive into how you can grow and discover yourself after a breakup, prioritize yourself, and improve your future relationships. Between sharing stories of being ghosted and interpreting confusing dating labels, today we’re talking about spreading love and, most importantly, loving yourself!



    1:00 Welcoming back Gabby!

    1:45 Gabby’s childhood with Ruby.

    3:20 How have their individual experiences with their parents’ love affected their dating life now?

    7:10 Gabby’s first serious relationship.

    8:10 How has the relationship with your father affected you?

    11:30 The difference between internal vs external confidence.

    14:20 How did the relationship between their mother and father influence them as children?

    15:35 Gabby’s trust issues.

    17:50 How has Ruby’s insecurities affected her relationships?

    21:30 Why Gabby became a “fixer”.

    23:30 What can you discover about yourself after your relationship?

    25:20 How can parents set a good example for their children with their relationship?

    29:00 How do you try to improve your relationships now?

    30:20 What is going to be different and better in the next relationship you’re in?

    36:35 What is it like being “ghosted?”

    41:55 Interpreting confusing relationship labels and knowing when to become “exclusive”

    48:30 What does “going with the flow” mean in a relationship?

    49:50 How divorce and dating can intersect.



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    Connect with Ruby on Instagram | @rubyecom



    Find out more and work with Ruby | https://lnk.bio/rubyecom

     

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    55 mins
  • Becoming the Person You Seek: A Male Perspective with Kyree Oliver
    Dec 11 2020

    We’re talking about relationships again on the podcast! Not only about the perfect relationship with a partner you want to manifest in your life, but THE MOST important relationship you’ll ever have. The one with yourself! Our host Ruby is joined by Kyree Oliver, an entrepreneur in his work in marketing and life coaching. Kyree doesn’t hold back as he talks about why we build up walls, and how to break the negative cycles we find ourselves in. It’s all about honest examination of why we show up in relationships the way we do, and how reaching the point of being tired of your own bullshit can become the biggest breakthrough! Tune in to find out how you can find fulfillment within yourself, success in business, and of course manifest the perfect partner for you. 

    01:00 Meet Kyree!

    04:20 How help men and women navigate through challenges?

    05:40 How can men embrace their soft heart?

    09:05 What is your inner child? How does that show up in our lives?

    13:20 How do become aware of childhood beliefs and see what is no longer serving you?

    16:00 What you need to do BEFORE you start working with a life coach.

    19:50 What advice would you give to strong women looking to find a partner?

    24:40 Ask yourself, what do you think about when you lay awake at night?

    29:00 How do you work through taking your walls down and being vulnerable after being hurt?

    33:10 Do you think it’s possible to find a partner while working on yourself, or do you need to work on yourself first?

    36:40 How to know if you’re ready for your “perfect” partner.

    38:15 How can people break from survival mode into feeling like they’re thriving?

    42:15 How have you found fulfillment?

    45:45 What can we do right now to become the person we want to be?

     

    Follow Kyree on Facebook and Instagram @kyree

     

    Check out these books mentioned in the podcast!

    Never Eat Alone by Keith Ferrazzi & Tahl Raz

    https://www.amazon.com/Never-Eat-Alone-Expanded-Updated/dp/0385346654

    A Man’s Search for Meaning by Viktor Frankl

    https://www.amazon.com/Mans-Search-Meaning-Viktor-Frankl/dp/0807000000/ref=asc_df_0807000000/?tag=hyprod-20&linkCode=df0&hvadid=312734685832&hvpos=&hvnetw=g&hvrand=16608063926413758048&hvpone=&hvptwo=&hvqmt=&hvdev=c&hvdvcmdl=&hvlocint=&hvlocphy=9029976&hvtargid=pla-572474067015&psc=1

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    Get in touch with Ruby on Instagram: @rubyecom

    https://www.instagram.com/rubyecom/?hl=en

    Find out more and work with Ruby:

    https://lnk.bio/rubyecom

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    50 mins

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