Cues of safety, danger, or life threat come from three places- inside, outside, and between.
In part 3 of this series on felt safety, we are exploring felt safety from between- from relationship!
In this episode, you’ll learn
- How availability of connection is a cue of safety or danger
- How neuroception can tell the state of the other person’s nervous system (connection or protection?)
- Why nervous systems are contagious
- How ‘between’ cues of safety eventually become ‘inside’ cues of safety
- How you can increase your own experience of safety even when you are parenting children in stuck in chronic procession mode
Resources mentioned in this podcast:
- Connection Or Protection??? {Ep 7}
- When Your Nervous System Is Fried {Ep 139}
- Influence Behaviors, Not Control {Ep 101}
- Amanda Diekman’s Book! - Low-Demand Parenting
Read the full transcript at: RobynGobbel.com/feltsafetybetween
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