Episodes

  • TOBG: What Would You Do in Nella's Shoes? with Nicole Young-Martin
    Nov 20 2024

    What would you do if you were in Nella's shoes? We've done a lot of talking about her actions, motivations, and background, but now it's time to put ourselves in her place. In this episode of Podcasting Is the New Kink!, Nicole and I dive into the choices we would make, emphasizing the significance of pain and resilience in shaping who we are today.


    We also give our predictions for a hypothetical season two, even though the series was cancelled after the first season, and we discuss the importance of having clear motivations for our protagonists, especially when they are hella messy. Great examples of messy but loveable protagonists show up in two of The Onyx Collective's other shows: "Queenie." and "Unprisoned." We compare the different worlds portrayed, the production value differences, and the relatability of the heroes in all three shows, with the protagonists from "Queenie," and "Unprisoned," being more likable than Nella, even though they were just as messy.


    We talk:

    Comparison to "Unprisoned" - 1:07

    Predictions for the season we didn't get - 12:26

    "What would YOU do?" questions - 25:09


    This is the last episode of our series on "The Other Black Girl," novel and series, so I hope you have enjoyed our discussion. There will definitely be more. Stay tuned!


    Episode References:

    The Other Black Girl (TV Series 2023)

    The Other Black Girl (Novel 2021)

    Zakiya Dalila Harris

    Unprisoned (TV Series 2023–2024)

    Queenie (TV Series 2024–)

    Queenie (book by Candice Carty-Williams, 2019)

    Black Panther (Film 2018)



    Connect with Nicole on her website BlackWritersRead.com and IG @blackwritersread


    *This episode of Podcasting Is the New Kink! was produced by Pink Lady Productions --> pinkladyprod.com

    Podcasting Is the New Kink! is a Black-owned, woman-owned podcast, and we support other Black, Indigenous, Women of Color-owned podcasts and businesses. We aim to educate and inspire. If that resonates with you, then become contributor now! Check us out for more info on how you can support. -> https://plus.acast.com/s/podcastingisthenewkink.


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    39 mins
  • TOBG: An Onyx Collective Production and Comparison with Nicole Young-Martin
    Nov 13 2024
    One thing “The Other Black Girl,” was missing was its sense of a New York setting. The book noted the resistance meeting in Harlem, but didn’t talk about where Wagner was located. And, the series used vague stock videos instead of showing specific landmarks, so we don’t know what neighborhoods they were in. This is just another thing the series was lacking. And, Nicole and I go into all of our production likes and dislikes in this episode of Podcasting Is the New Kink!We liked the characterization through costuming. For example, Nella starting off wearing neutral colors and plain patterns, but ended up wearing bright hues and daring silhouettes, and we saw her experimenting along the way. Her costumes directly represented her character arc, and it was fun to watch.We also talk about the production company, The Onyx Collective, and similar shows that they have produced, like "Queenie," which we both found more engaging, well-written, and visually appealing. We emphasize the importance of genuine diversity and the need for better adaptations of black literature.Episode References:The Other Black Girl (TV Series 2023)The Other Black Girl (Novel 2021)Zakiya Dalila HarrisThe Twilight Zone (2019–2020)American Fiction (2023)"Erasure" by Percival EverettTara DuncanTimes ReviewThe Onyx Collective ShowsQueenie (2024)"Queenie" by Candice Carty-WilliamsBWR Bonus: Nicole on Candice Carty-Williams' QueenieTOBG Wiki PageDem Bois Pod Ep. 58 Culture and CannabisPINK Ep. 61 Themes, Genres, and Cultural RelevanceConnect with Nicole on her website BlackWritersRead.com and IG @blackwritersread*This episode of Podcasting Is the New Kink! was produced by Pink Lady Productions --> pinkladyprod.com Podcasting Is the New Kink! is a Black-owned, woman-owned podcast, and we support other Black, Indigenous, Women of Color-owned podcasts and businesses. We aim to educate and inspire. If that resonates with you, then become contributor now! Check us out for more info on how you can support. -> https://plus.acast.com/s/podcastingisthenewkink. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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    56 mins
  • TOBG: Why it Wasn't a Thriller! with Nicole Young-Martin
    Nov 6 2024

    The last episode of Podcasting Is the New Kink! ended with me talking about what makes a thriller and the elements that are usually included in thrillers. This episode starts with a conversation about why "The Other Black Girl" is NOT a thriller and what it lacks.


    We also highlight the lack of clear character motivations, the inconsistent use of time and place markers, and the unrealistic portrayal of black women greasing each other's scalps, or temples, like the series shows. We compare it to other successful thrillers like "The Blackening" and "Inside Out 2," noting the importance of suspense, a clock, and believable plot devices. The conversation also touches on the rushed production timeline and the need for better context and development of themes related to blackness/anti-blackness, respectability politics, and workplace culture.


    We talk:

    The brilliance of "Inside Out 2" - 4:36

    Time/place markers in the book - 11:11

    Series production time, or lack of it - 19:01

    Social commentary of "the grease" - 27:26

    Revising Diana's character - 34:37


    In this episode, I learned that the production time for streamed series is very short. And the writers aren't usually a part of the filming process, so they don't get a chance to gel and really develop the show. These streaming companies prefer quantity over quality and it shows!


    Episode References:

    The Other Black Girl (TV Series 2023)

    The Other Black Girl (Novel 2021)

    Zakiya Dalila Harris

    2023 Writers Guild of America Strike

    Inside Out 2

    The Blackening



    Connect with Nicole on her website BlackWritersRead.com and IG @blackwritersread


    *This episode of Podcasting Is the New Kink! was produced by Pink Lady Productions --> pinkladyprod.com

    Podcasting Is the New Kink! is a Black-owned, woman-owned podcast, and we support other Black, Indigenous, Women of Color-owned podcasts and businesses. We aim to educate and inspire. If that resonates with you, then become contributor now! Check us out for more info on how you can support. -> https://plus.acast.com/s/podcastingisthenewkink.


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    38 mins
  • TOBG: Themes, Genres, and Cultural Relevance with Nicole Young-Martin
    Oct 30 2024
    "The Other Black Girl" was billed as "Get Out" meets "Devil Wears Prada," but it definitely missed the mark there. And, that is a huge part of the discussion in this episode of Podcasting is the New Kink! Nicole and I had to take some leaps to draw parallels between these stories, and it was not easy.We also discuss themes in "The Other Black Girl," both the book and series. We explore the concept of "outward facing, or forced diversity" and the role it plays in corporate settings, citing how the story uses the publishing industry as an example. One my my favorite parts of this conversation surrounded the portrayal of blackness, anti-blackness, and workplace politics and hair in the book and its adaptation. We also touch on the story's portrayal of sisterhood and the lack of it.We talk:Forced diversity in real life - 6:54Hair as a key identity marker for Black women - 18:37Blackness not accepted in workplace culture - 24:00Sisterhood and the lack thereof - 34:56"Get Out" meets "Devil Wears Prada" - 45:01What makes a thriller a thriller - 52:29At the end of this episode, I talk about what makes a thriller a thriller, highlighting the importance of suspense, plot twists, and character development, and critiquing the book and series's failure to meet these expectations.Episode References:The Other Black Girl (TV Series 2023)The Other Black Girl by Zakiya Dalila HarrisZakiya Dalila HarrisDem Bois Podcast Ep. #58 - Culture and Cannabis: Advocating for Black Trans MenGabby DouglasSimone BilesCaste: The Origins of Our Discontents by Isabel WilkersonOrigin (Movie 2023)Black Writers Read Podcast Ep. Bonus: Isabel Wilkerson's Caste, a Conversation with Pink Lady Jasmine GaryGet Out (Movie 2017)The Devil Wears Prada (Movie 2006)The Prestige (Movie 2006)Connect with Nicole on her website BlackWritersRead.com and IG @blackwritersread*This episode of Podcasting Is the New Kink! was produced by Pink Lady Productions --> pinkladyprod.com Podcasting Is the New Kink! is a Black-owned, woman-owned podcast, and we support other Black, Indigenous, Women of Color-owned podcasts and businesses. We aim to educate and inspire. If that resonates with you, then become contributor now! Check us out for more info on how you can support. -> https://plus.acast.com/s/podcastingisthenewkink. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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    59 mins
  • TOBG: Characters, Commentary, and Cancellation with Nicole Young-Martin
    Oct 23 2024

    The Other Black Girl's TV series ended with a bang! We loved the fact that there was potential to explore Nella's transformation into a more assertive character, especially contrasting with the book's less satisfying conclusion. And, we liked that they left lots of room for another season. But, we may never get that second season, because for now it's been cancelled. My cohost Nicole and I talk about this and more in this episode of Podcasting Is the New Kink!


    We talk:

    Racism in Boston and the lack of that context - 2:54

    Shani and Kendra Rae's narrow introductions - 9:45

    Jesse Watson's character in the book vs the series - 19:08

    Political commentary in the series - 22:45

    The endings - 30:06


    One of my favorite parts of the conversation was about the confusion around Shani's character and the lack of context provided. In the book, she is used to introduce the resistance, and that storyline is pretty choppy and hard to follow. In the series there is no resistance, so we are left to wonder about Shani's actions and her relation to Kendra Rae.


    The lack of context and character development is mentioned multiple times:

    1. surrounding Shani, as mentioned above
    2. when Nicole gives us background on Boston's racial dynamics and critiques its portrayal in the storyline
    3. when we discuss the lack of depth in characters like Owen and Malaika


    We also talk about the political commentary in Jesse Watson's role and the series' critique of the publishing industry.


    Connect with Nicole on her website BlackWritersRead.com and IG @blackwritersread


    Episode References:

    The Other Black Girl (TV Series 2023)

    The Other Black Girl (Novel 2021)

    Zakiya Dalila Harris

    Clayton Bigsby, the World’s Only Black White Supremacist - Chappelle’s Show

    Inside Out 2



    *This episode of Podcasting Is the New Kink! was produced by Pink Lady Productions --> pinkladyprod.com

    Podcasting Is the New Kink! is a Black-owned, woman-owned podcast, and we support other Black, Indigenous, Women of Color-owned podcasts and businesses. We aim to educate and inspire. If that resonates with you, then become contributor now! Check us out for more info on how you can support. -> https://plus.acast.com/s/podcastingisthenewkink.


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    38 mins
  • TOBG: White Boyfriends and Black Best Friends with Nicole Young-Martin
    Oct 9 2024

    A main character in "The Other Black Girl," was the grease, but we don't really know much about it. What the h*** was it's purpose? Who made it? What does it symbolize in the "real" world? How does it actually work? The book does a very shallow dive into these questions, and the series does even less. But, the grease isn't the only character missing a backstory. Almost all of them are! "Hazel" is the only one who gets actual character history and we are grateful to understand her motives so deeply, but she's the main antagonist! Why does she get a backstory before the protagonist? Make it make sense!


    In this episode of Podcasting Is the New Kink!, Nicole and I discuss the lack of character development in "The Othe Black Girl." We start with a focus on Diana Gordon and Kendra Rae, noting the disconnect in their storylines and the lack of depth in their friendship. We also critique the portrayal of Owen and Malaika, as flat characters dropped into Nella's world, without their own storylines. And, we discuss the story's failure to provide good explanations for key plot points and character actions.


    We talk:

    Diana Gordon and Kendra Rae - 1:08

    The "Grease" - 15:02

    The differences in how we consume media - 25:41

    Owen and Malaika - 32:28


    In the episode Nicole makes a comment about how we all consume different types of media, specifically comparing TV series' and novels. In books, we use our imagination, we can literally read the subtext, and there is an expectation of the reader to use their imagination to fill in certain things. In a TV series, we need to be spoon-fed! The production should show the world that needs to be seen and give us all the tools for it to make sense. We shouldn't have to make huge inferences about what it going on. We shouldn't have to guess!


    Unfortunately, I still have a bunch of questions, and I've already watched the series twice, so please hit me up if you know there is something I missed, or if you have the answers! :)


    Connect with Nicole on her website BlackWritersRead.com and IG @blackwritersread


    Episode References:

    The Other Black Girl (TV Series 2023)

    The Other Black Girl (Novel 2021)

    Zakiya Dalila Harris

    Get Out (2017)

    The Blackening (2022)

    Queenie (2024-)

    Dangerous Minds (1995)



    *This episode of Podcasting Is the New Kink! was produced by Pink Lady Productions --> pinkladyprod.com

    Podcasting Is the New Kink! is a Black-owned, woman-owned podcast, and we support other Black, Indigenous, Women of Color-owned podcasts and businesses. We aim to educate and inspire. If that resonates with you, then become contributor now! Check us out for more info on how you can support. -> https://plus.acast.com/s/podcastingisthenewkink.


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    43 mins
  • The Other Black Girl: Who is it for? with Nicole Young-Martin
    Oct 2 2024
    "The Other Black Girl" was an EXTREMELY popular novel and TV series, and I usually stay away from things like that because me and popular don't have a very good relationship. But, my co-host Nicole is drawn to it. She is interested in uncovering how things become so popular and what makes audiences so interested.When we heard about "The Other Black Girl," we couldn't stay away! I was especially excited about a thriller based on a novel written by a Black woman, with a Black woman protagonist and antagonist. And, I'm super excited to share our conversation in this episode of Podcasting Is the New Kink!. Nicole and I analyze the book and series, noting the lack of character development, the importance of diverse representation in media, and much more.We talk:What drew us to the book and series - 7:07How we feel about things that are "popular" - 16:35Our protagonist, Nella - 23:39The lack of history for our Characters - 36:49Our antagonist, Hazel's hair - 46:22Budget and production - 54:54One question that kept coming up was, who was this for? Both the book and the series seemed to lack connection with the presumed audience, Black women. Stay tuned for more on this in the next episode of Podcasting Is the New Kink! Connect with Nicole on her website BlackWritersRead.com and IG @blackwritersreadEpisode References:The Other Black Girl (TV Series 2023)The Other Black Girl (Novel 2021)Zakiya Dalila HarrisGet Out (2017)The Blackening (2022)Sex and the City (1998 - 2004)The Passion of the Christ (2004)Game of Thrones (TV Series 2011–2019)Lynn NottageRoots (1977)Queenie (2024-)Sinclair DanielInsecure (2016 - 2021)Rashida Jones*This episode of Podcasting Is the New Kink! was produced by Pink Lady Productions --> pinkladyprod.com Podcasting Is the New Kink! is a Black-owned, woman-owned podcast, and we support other Black, Indigenous, Women of Color-owned podcasts and businesses. We aim to educate and inspire. If that resonates with you, then become contributor now! Check us out for more info on how you can support. -> https://plus.acast.com/s/podcastingisthenewkink. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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    53 mins
  • PINK Season 8 Trailer
    Sep 25 2024

    I hope you are ready for the next season of Podcasting Is the New Kink!, because here it comes! And, this time, I've brought a guest!


    Season 8 is all about The Other Black Girl, the super popular novel by Zakiya Dalila Harris AND the questionable series by The Onyx Collective aka Disney. And, I am joined by my new friend and sister in podcasting, the amazing Nicole M. Young-Martin. Nicole is a writer, educator, editor and performer, and she is the founder, producer, and host of the podcast, Black Writers Read, which launched on Juneteenth in 2020.


    Connect with Nicole on her website blackwritersread.com and IG @blackwritersread


    In this special season, we are going to talk about why you should spend some time reading the book and/or watching the series, and why the themes within are so important.


    Stay tuned for new episodes released on Wednesdays! And, make sure that you are subscribed to Podcasting Is the New Kink!




    Podcasting Is the New Kink! is a Black-owned, woman-owned podcast, and we support other Black, Indigenous, Women of Color-owned podcasts and businesses. We aim to educate and inspire. If that resonates with you, then become contributor now! Check us out for more info on how you can support. -> https://plus.acast.com/s/podcastingisthenewkink.


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