We've been using dating apps for ten years- why are we still single? Virginia and Laura talk gamefication, the labor of dating, and why Virginia worships a woman named Alison Stevenson. Also, we exchange anniversary gifts! Enjoy!

What does it mean to set a boundary, and how are they useful? We talk about why we love Taylor Swift and Dolly Parton, but hate Jonah Hill.

TW: This episode deals with domestic violence and physical abuse.

Laura brings up the lighthearted topic of domestic violence, why we tolerate celebrities who abuse their partners, and why she can't enjoy the Dead Milkmen like she used to.

The Guardian: Surge in domestic abuse cases coincides with England’s World Cup exit: Megan French

Journal Of Public Economics: Football, alcohol, and domestic abuse

LA Times: This is what it took to expose Sean ‘Diddy’ Combs’ abuse of his girlfriend: By Robin Abcarian

Angelina Jolie alleges ‘history’ of Brad Pitt’s physical abuse prior to 2016 plane ride in new Miraval lawsuit filing

By Alli Rosenbloom,

Chris Brown’s Legal Problems: A Timeline of Trouble

Not just a women's issue: Dr. Jackson Katz explores why we need “more than a few good men” to end the cycle of violence against women

Laura and Virginia are delighted to welcome Jackie Kashian (Conan, Corden, The Jackie and Laurie Show), to talk about the difference between like and love, and her tolerance for lizards and wizards. On the way, we talk neurospiciness, comedy, and caesar salad.
Jackie Kashian: Stay-Kashian Comedy Special!

The Science Behind Why We Fall in Love: Mt. Elizabeth Hospitals

The Science Behind Love: How Your Brain and Five Senses Help You Fall in Love: Jason Wirchin

Why We Love: The Nature and Chemistry of Romantic Love: Helen Fisher

“The Suspension Bridge Effect” people’s likability increases when they are in high places: Medium

How Do You Know If It's Love or Just Infatuation?

Figure out if it's an "I want you" or an "I love you": Barbara Field

Harville Hendrix, Making Marriage Simple: Ten Relationship-Saving Truths

Harville Hendrix, Getting the Love You Want: A Guide for Couples

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