In today's episode, I talk to Gina, who is a surrogate, who has given birth to 3 children for parents who could not carry their own.

Gina tells us all about her surrogacy journey's, how she found the couple she was going to be a surrogate for and the disappointments of failed embryo transfers. Pregnancy, labour, and the feeling she got watching another couple become parents for the first time, knowing she helped to make it happen.

We also discuss feminism and the anti surrogacy community, and she gives us her unique take on how helping others makes you feel good.

She also answers one of the most common questions posed to surrogates, how is it possible to give a baby to another couples when you have given birth to it?

We also discussed...

• The intention agreement that needs to be in place before the embryo transfer begins
• Why the surrogate and intended parents need to do a will
• Belly buds and how to connect the intended parents with the baby even if they’re not carrying it
• The highs and lows of embryo transfers
• Feminism and the Anti surrogacy moment
• Pregnancy and labour
• How surrogacy is not about giving a baby away but giving the baby back to its parents
• The most common misconceptions around surrogacy
• Surrogacy laws and how they need to change
• Hyperemesis - severe vomiting in pregnancy
• How the support of Gina’s husband was so important
• How there are many types of family building

Thanks to Gina Kinson for telling her story - you can follow Gina here - https://www.instagram.com/gink49

You can follow Fran Simmons, whose story it also is, here - https://www.instagram.com/100yearsinthemaking/

Gina works for 'My Surrogacy Journey' you can follow them here - https://www.instagram.com/officialmysurrogacyjourney/

Thanks to Dan Fanshawe and Tom Walker for the introduction.

Thanks to Sarah Powell, Bryher Williams and Felicity Papendieck for their input.

Location: NoStar Studios - https://nostars.uk

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CONTENT WARNING: Please note that this podcast features themes of pregnancy loss.

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In today's episode, I meet Ryan. 20 years ago, on Boxing Day, 2004, over a quarter of a million people were killed, across 14 countries in the Indian Ocean Tsunami. At 11am, when the Tsunami hit Krabbi in Thailand, Ryan was snorkelling in the sea.

Ryan will be telling his story of survival, of how a dream holiday with his girlfriend and his friends turned into his worst nightmare. We discuss what happened that day, and its aftermath. His experience of being treated in a Thai hospital which was overrun and how fellow holidaymakers and local communities kicked in to action to help.

He also tells me about the long term physical and mental effects of the Tsunami and the importance of getting help, along with what he’s learnt about people and how they can be the light in the darkest of times.

We talked about -

• A detailed description of what happened when the Tsunami hit and the immediate aftermath.
• The terrifying experience of losing his girlfriend and friend
• His injuries and the fight against bacteria that had never been seen before
• His experiences in an Thai hospital that was completely overrun, the language barrier and stories of the kindness of people
• Their decision to hire a speed boat rather than a long tail boat that saved lives.
• His unique journey to the Bangkok hospital
• The kindness of people and how people are mostly good
• The importance of seeking help and allowing yourself to be supported
• PTSD and Cognitive Behavioural Therapy
• How nature brings peace
• Survivors Guilt

Thanks to Ryan Kelly for sharing his story and Abi Kelly for making it happen.

Thanks to Jamie Moore and Bryher Williams for their input.

Location: NoStar Studios - https://nostars.uk

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CONTENT WARNING: Please note that this podcast features themes of death and graphic descriptions of injury.

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Tyler is a Showman and the founder of Traveller Pride.

We discuss growing up on the fair and how he felt being bisexual in a community where being gay was seen as a bit of joke, and where reputation is your lifeblood.

How he managed to overcome his fears of bringing shame on the family, and being rejected by the community he loved, to embrace his sexuality and start the very first Traveller Pride.

We talked about -

• What it was like growing up on the fair and being different to others
• The Showmen Community, their beliefs and values and the importance of family and heritage
• Being a traveller in the LGBTQ community
• The pride of the Showmen community and the importance of appearance ‘the flash’
• Traveller education
• What it was like moving into a house for the first time after living in a trailer
• His experience of the Showmen community's views of the LGBTQ community
• Coming out
• Starting Traveller Pride
• The importance of LGBTQ visibility in Traveller communities
• Knowing yourself
• Cherry Valentine, the Romany Gypsy drag queen and what she did for LGBTQ travellers

Tyler works as a therapist and has his own private practice.

Follow Tyler on X/Twitter - https://x.com/tjhatwell

Follow Traveller Pride here:

Website - https://www.lgbttravellerpride.com

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/travellerpride/

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/lgbttravellerpride/

Follow Metro Charities here:

Website - https://metrocharity.org.uk

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/METROcharity/

Follow London Gypsies and Travellers here:

Website - https://www.londongypsiesandtravellers.org.uk

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/londongypsytraveller/

Thanks to Barney Addison, Bryher Williams, Felicity Papendieck and Sarah Powell for their input.

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CONTENT WARNING: Please note that this podcast features themes of suicide.

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