Have you ever dated someone who’s so hard to stay away from EVEN THOUGH they’re not interested in a relationship and you know you should keep your distance? It’s like a drug . . . or the worst kind of junk food . . . even after you swear it off for good, your resolve crumbles the moment they reach out.

When you’re in this vulnerable position, the hope that they may change and that things could be different is what drags you back in. And before you know it, you go right back to feeling powerless—holding on to someone who’s not giving you what you need. So how can you break this cycle once and for all? Don’t miss today’s brand-new video!

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• Why society is obsessed with red flags and how to shift focus to green flags
• The #1 trait that predicts long-term relationship success
• The power of celebrating each other's successes in a relationship
• Why curiosity and learning about your partner is a game-changer
• How to recognize real green flags vs. performative charm
• What to do if you’re only attracted to red flag energy
• Plus: We introduce Green Flag Dilemmas, a fun game that may or may not return

We tell ourselves we have high standards—but is that actually true? Or are we just prioritizing the wrong things? And what if we meet someone who’s perfect on paper, but there’s no spark? Can chemistry slowly grow, or is it something we either feel instantly . . . or never will?

For today’s new episode, I sat down with Kristin Cavallari on her “Let’s Be Honest” podcast to talk about chemistry vs. compatibility, one of the biggest mistakes people make in dating, and what actually matters when you’re looking for a lasting relationship.

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In today’s Rewind episode, I share very specific principles that will be useful the next time you feel like you’re getting carried away with someone you like. And remember, no one (including yourself!) should make you feel like you’re “not enough.” No matter who you’re dating, by investing in yourself, you can come into any situation feeling like an equal.

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►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com

►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com

• How to cultivate emotional peace and avoid sabotaging relationships
• The challenge of maintaining non-attachment while desiring love
• Navigating dating anxiety and fear of loss
• How to balance personal happiness and the search for a relationship
• The role of mindfulness in long-term partnerships
• How friendships, mentors, and community can support personal growth
• Understanding intuition when choosing a partner
• The difference between attraction and true compatibility
• How to navigate conflict with compassion and understanding

This week’s new video is an extra special one: the first half of my interview with poet, meditator, speaker, and bestselling author Yung Pueblo. We talk about specific signs that a relationship will last, the myth of “if it’s right, it will be easy,” how to stop toxic communication patterns, navigating the early stages of dating, and so much more.

No matter which stage of a relationship you’re in, this interview is a must-watch. I can’t wait to hear what you think!

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This week’s video is about moving in together.

But you should watch it even if you’re not at that stage with someone, because it contains a truth that is essential to understand when moving from one stage of a relationship to the next.

If there is someone in your life you plan on getting more serious with, this is for you.

I felt this video was especially relevant to these times where the term “turbo relationships” is on the rise. A “turbo relationship” is a relationship that is moving unnaturally quickly because of the circumstances of this year – lockdown necessities, spending large chunks of time with each other, choosing one person instead of casually dating multiple people, and moving in together far earlier than we otherwise would.

All of this puts pressure on the relationship that can be counterproductive to it going somewhere long term. If we want to build our relationships to last, it’s important they don’t burn out before they’ve really begun.

This video will show you how to ramp up your relationship without ramping up the pressure.

Enjoy!

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►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → http://www.AskMH.com

►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com

►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com

• The Difference Between "Right" and "Ready" – Why the perfect person for you isn't just about compatibility but about commitment.
• Unwilling Compromises vs. Real Obstacles – Understanding when someone is genuinely unable to be with you versus when they’re just unwilling to make sacrifices.
• Why Love is a Verb, Not Just Words – Actions define relationships, not promises or poetry.
• The Power of Perspective – If you were in their shoes, what would you be willing to do to make it work?
• How to Move Forward – Letting go of someone who won’t show up for you and reclaiming your time and emotional energy.