In this powerful episode of The Lost Boy Scouts Podcast, Tyler and Danny dive deep into the complexities of aging as men and explore what it means to remain "dangerous" as we get older. Inspired by a poignant quote from Act of Valor, the hosts discuss the sacred nature of living by a code, the role of masculinity as it evolves, and the tension between relevance and wisdom. Along the way, they break down the recent Tyson vs. Jake Paul fight and whether it was staged, touching on age, athleticism, and legacy.

This episode blends humor, heartfelt reflection, and honest insights into the struggles and triumphs of getting older, staying relevant, and passing on wisdom to the next generation.

What You’ll Hear in This Episode:

The Sacred Badge of Danger:

The Act of Valor quote and its resonance with modern manhood.
Why being “dangerous” is a sacred concept and how it evolves with age.
Breaking Down the Tyson vs. Jake Paul Fight:

Was the fight staged, and how did age play a role?
The intersection of spectacle, legacy, and athleticism.
What this fight says about manufactured vs. authentic danger.
The Evolution of Masculinity:

How men adapt to physical decline with age and transform danger into wisdom.
Living by a code and passing it on to younger generations.
The balance between resilience and acceptance in aging.
The Importance of Tribe and Mentorship:

Finding your tribe of like-minded men who inspire growth.
The role of mentors in shaping young men and fostering a sense of purpose.
Personal Stories and Reflection:

Danny’s insights from coaching wrestling and the lessons of resilience.
Tyler’s solo trip to Moab and Durango and how reconnecting with nature-inspired introspection.

In this episode of The Last Boy Scouts Podcast, Danny and Tyler dive deep into the concept of ownership, exploring how taking responsibility for our actions and choices—good and bad—can transform our lives. They discuss many men's struggles in seeking help, learning from mistakes, and building accountability in their relationships. Through candid stories, humor, and insights from their journeys, they shed light on the challenges of self-improvement, the courage needed to ask for support, and the essential role of accountability in building resilience. Tune in for a raw, inspiring conversation about stepping up, seizing the moment, and finding strength in living intentionally.

Topics Covered:

• [0:02] Welcome back to the studio (and ongoing technical challenges)
• [3:45] The bus setup: Bringing the podcast on the road
• [5:23] Why we struggle to accept constructive feedback as men
• [10:14] "The Need for Good Men": Finding support and role models
• [14:52] Taking ownership vs. blaming others for setbacks
• [19:08] The concept of homeostasis and managing highs and lows
• [23:47] Breaking down the peaks and valleys of men's mental health
• [29:32] “Soundboarding” as a powerful tool in friendships
• [35:55] The evolving studio setup and learning from mistakes
• [41:02] Taking feedback as guidance, not criticism
• [45:10] The role of jiu-jitsu in teaching humility and resilience
• [51:20] Jiu-jitsu classes as a lesson in asking questions and taking risks
• [56:18] Challenging the perception of "toxic masculinity"
• [1:01:10] The power of extreme ownership in shaping relationships
• [1:05:03] Breaking generational cycles by embracing accountability
• [1:10:49] Redefining masculinity in today's world
• [1:15:23] Facing hardships: Taking ownership instead of blaming others
• [1:20:11] “Stand on Business”: Embracing your role in conflicts and resolutions
• [1:25:05] How owning mistakes builds stronger bonds with family
• [1:30:34] Navigating disagreements and conflict with grace
• [1:35:18] The importance of kindness and grace in owning up to mistakes
• [1:40:00] Wrapping up: How small actions of ownership can transform your life
• [1:43:30] Final thoughts: Why “Owning the Moment” matters in a man’s journey

Ever struggled with tech? Yeah, same here! In this episode, Tyler and Danny come clean about last week’s audio mishaps (don’t worry, we think we’ve got it sorted). From the joys of learning podcasting on the go to deeper conversations about wrestling, jiu-jitsu, and navigating life’s unexpected lessons, the guys explore how to embrace imperfection and keep laughing through the challenges—on and off the mat.

Set against the crisp backdrop of Utah’s mountains, they discuss life’s rapid pace, wrestling with perfectionism, and the importance of staying grounded in the present. They also explore the role of mentorship and how it reflects life’s highs and lows, reminding us that real growth often comes from the hardest lessons.

Grab your winter coat (or, if you’re like Tyler, your flip-flops) and join the conversation as The Lost Boy Scouts continue their journey through the beautiful chaos of manhood, learning, and everything in between.

In this episode of The Last Boy Scouts, Tyler and Danny tackle the ups and downs of their weekend, starting with technical glitches during their mountain recording session and reflecting on the recent belt test. From discussing the importance of perseverance on the mat to digging deep into personal reflections on relationships, the guys share powerful insights about personal growth, conflict resolution, and the journey to becoming better men.

• Tech Troubles in the Mountains: The guys face equipment challenges but keep it real and raw, discussing how they overcome frustrations.
• Belt Test Recap: A proud moment for the community as they celebrate Preston and Dave earning their black belts. Tyler and Danny reflect on what it means to work hard and stay committed.
• Progress & Regression: Why it's crucial to recognize not only our progress but also our ability to bounce back from setbacks.
• The "Same Team" Mentality: How relationships, especially marriage, require constant teamwork and open communication.
• Healing Conflict: Conflict doesn’t mean disconnection; it's an opportunity to grow. The guys share personal stories on navigating tough moments in their marriages.
• Sponsorship Shoutouts: Announcements about collaborations with Mayhem on the Mat, Jitsi Rings, and Element.

Episode Summary:

In this candid and reflective episode, Tyler and Danny dive into the challenges of life both on and off the mat. Broadcasting from the mountains, the duo battles through technical issues while sharing stories from a recent jiu-jitsu belt test, where perseverance and teamwork took center stage. They delve into the complexities of relationships, discussing how they navigate conflicts with their spouses and the importance of being on the "same team." Throughout the conversation, they emphasize the value of learning from both progress and setbacks, whether it’s in jiu-jitsu or life. This episode is a powerful mix of humor, heart, and real talk about manhood, growth, and resilience.

In this episode of The Lost Boy Scouts, Danny and Tyler reflect on their journey through Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu and life's challenges. They discuss the physical toll of training, the anticipation of upcoming belt tests, and the sense of progression that comes from consistency. Shifting gears, the conversation dives deep into personal growth, vulnerability, and the complexities of male relationships. The hosts talk about how men handle conflict, addiction, and the struggle to find a balance between being a "monster" in the right situations and learning when to pull back. They explore trust, personal responsibility, and setting boundaries through raw and honest dialogue. This episode is a candid look at men's mental and emotional battles as they strive to become better versions of themselves.

Show Notes:

• 00:00 – Intro and casual chat about reaching Episode 38
• 02:00 – Cold weather and cowboy hats: life in Utah
• 04:30 – Recap of a grueling Wednesday Jiu-Jitsu session and the challenge of facing tough rounds
• 09:45 – Tyler's experience with Nick Howlett and the "tree trunk" guillotine attempt
• Noon – Physical training: balancing weights and BJJ and the soreness that comes with it
• 16:15 – Belt test preparation and the buzz at the academy
• 19:00 – The importance of consistency in training and life
• 22:00 – Personal progress vs. stagnation: dealing with self-doubt and mental hurdles
• 26:00 – Cutting toxic relationships and emotional baggage
• 31:45 – The internal struggle: examining the root of emotional addiction
• 39:15 – The challenges of male communication and relationships
• 44:00 – Rumination, scorekeeping, and the toll it takes on mental health
• 53:30 – Navigating family dynamics and maintaining healthy boundaries
• 01:06:00 – Addiction and regression: the slippery slope of falling back into old habits
• 01:18:00 – Porn addiction and the emotional residue it leaves behind
• 01:32:00 – Jiu-Jitsu community highs and lows, staying grounded amid growth
• 01:40:00 – Embracing slow progress and finding pride in who you've become

In this episode of The Last Boy Scouts podcast, hosts Danny and Tyler dive into their recent adventures, discussing everything from work-life balance and parenting challenges to their favorite pastime: jiu-jitsu. They touch on personal growth, overcoming workplace conflict, and the lessons learned from being a "white belt for life" in both jiu-jitsu and personal development. The hosts also break down the exciting matches from the Craig Jones Invitational (CJI) and ADCC, sharing their thoughts on the rise of jiu-jitsu as a spectator sport. The conversation rounds out with reflections on family, their upcoming jiu-jitsu belt test, and the power of maintaining humility in the face of life's challenges.

Show Notes:

Episode Highlights:

• [00:00:07] Intro and catching up after a break
• [00:00:36] Juggling podcasting, work, and family life
• [00:01:19] Danny’s reflections on work challenges and handling conflict
• [00:02:32] A deep dive into jiu-jitsu: Comparing tower control at work to jiu-jitsu mindset
• [00:16:32] Tyler’s daughter’s university experience and the importance of finding your path
• [00:45:06] Insights into competing at CJI and ADCC tournaments
• [00:51:15] Jiu-jitsu lessons: Humility, family, and always being a white belt in life
• [00:59:55] Upcoming events: Belt testing, birthdays, and fall camping trips
• [01:05:20] Ending on a thoughtful note: Conflict resolution and the superpower of humility

Key Takeaways:

1. Conflict Resolution – Apologizing and addressing situations with grace can transform difficult interactions, whether at work or in jiu-jitsu.
2. Parenting Insights – Tyler talks about his daughter’s educational journey and the importance of supporting young adults in their decision-making.
3. Jiu-Jitsu Growth – The episode features an in-depth discussion on jiu-jitsu tournaments like CJI and ADCC, touching on the evolution of the sport and the personalities driving its popularity.
4. Philosophy of Being a White Belt for Life – Both hosts reflect on the mindset of remaining curious, humble, and constantly learning, both in jiu-jitsu and life.
5. Personal Reflection – The hosts share personal experiences about balancing family, work, and personal growth.

Mentions:

• Craig Jones Invitational (CJI)
• ADCC (Abu Dhabi Combat Club)
• Park City Jiu-Jitsu
• Jits Rings (Sponsor)

In this episode of The Last Boy Scouts, Danny and Tyler dive deep into the daily grind of maintaining a routine amidst life's chaos. From the physical demands of jiu-jitsu training to the emotional challenges of fatherhood, they explore how to stay disciplined when motivation wanes. They discuss the importance of non-negotiables, accountability, and how to lead through routine, especially when life gets overwhelming.

Tyler shares his struggles balancing his training schedule while being a single parent and the importance of resetting when life throws curveballs. Danny reflects on his journey as an empty nester and how prioritizing his health and career has evolved. The conversation also touches on societal pressures, the influence of social media, and the challenges of raising kids in a world full of distractions.

Listen in as they candidly discuss the importance of self-awareness, the need to ask for help, and how to self-rescue when it gets tough. Whether you're a seasoned jiu-jitsu practitioner or just trying to keep up with the demands of everyday life, this episode offers insights and encouragement for anyone looking to build a better routine and find balance in the chaos.

Key Topics:

• Staying motivated in training and life
• The importance of routines and non-negotiables
• Balancing fatherhood, work, and personal growth
• Social media's impact on self-perception and priorities
• Self-rescue techniques and the power of breathwork

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Tyler and Danny break down the intense superfights, from the young prodigies showcasing textbook techniques to the thrilling overtime battles that kept everyone on the edge of their seats. Hear behind-the-scenes stories of camaraderie and the buzz of anticipation that filled the air. They also reflect on the emotional black belt promotions, the impact of elevation on the competitors, and the heartfelt speeches that rounded out the event. In addition, Danny shares tales from his adventurous road trip in a vintage VW bus, complete with unexpected challenges and memorable moments. To top it all off, the hosts tease an exciting upcoming announcement that listeners won't want to miss. This episode is packed with action, inspiration, and a glimpse into what's next for the podcast.