• 3am Thoughts
    Nov 6 2024

    Hello Black Heart Gang!🖤


    Welcome back to this week’s episode. The Last Episode of Season 5 y’all!! On this week’s episode I decided to let go of my 3am thoughts and share them with you guys. Sometimes I just get into these kind of feelings and I think it would be pretty good to share them since a lot of times I write them down/ bottle them up. We get into the question of are you scared of love or scared of giving love to the wrong person? From there we talk about choosing ourselves and what that entails. To finally giving ourselves grace and the credit we deserve for handling everything we have had thrown at us. Let’s talk about it Black Heart Gang!…Got a story or a conversation you want to talk about/ tell me? Message me about getting on the podcast for the schedule. Let’s talk more about the conversation on Social Media.

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    23 mins
  • Are Your Standards Too High or Are you Asking the Wrong Person?
    Oct 23 2024

    Hello Black Heart Gang! 🖤

    Welcome back to this week’s episode. Today I decided to finally talk about the topic of Standards since we all got them and they either are talk about a lot or not enough. Some people hate them or some people love them because they give us a basis of where to go off from when we are dating, talking to someone, and etc. But How do we know if our standards are too high or we are just picking the wrong person? Let’s talk about it Black Heart Gang! ..Got a story or conversation you want to talk about/tell me? Message me about getting on the podcast for the schedule. Let’s talk about the conversation more on Social Media.

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    29 mins
  • Dropping the Baggage
    Oct 16 2024

    Hello Black Heart Gang!!🖤

    Welcome back to week’s episode. Let’s start making these people regret that they didn’t treat us right and make them start wishing they did. Trust me a lot of us sit here and blame ourselves for everything but we aren’t the ones to blame for others sitting there coming into things they aren’t ready for and deciding to hurt others. That’s another thing we decided to talk about why people jump into these relationships, situationships, and etc know they aren’t or are still hurt and continue to hurt the people around them… If Any Men wanna give their perspective on this topic or other topics? Hit my Instagram for details..Got a story or conversation you want to talk about/tell me? Message me about getting on the podcast for the schedule. Let’s talk about the conversation more on Social Media.

    YouTube: Kristian Valerie.Martinez

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    21 mins
  • Her Way
    Oct 9 2024

    Hello Black Heart Gang!!🖤

    Welcome back to this week’s episode. You guys I think it’s time I finally take myself out the dating game .. What?!? Yup. You read that right. I think it’s time I allow myself to let the Diosito choose if he really wants someone for me because obviously your girl can’t seem to pick them. Don’t get me wrong y’all I know I’m very deserving of love, shit we all are but some people don’t know how to value people’s time and I’m not allowing anyone to just take up my time like that no more because I’ve been pushing my shit to the side for them.. So let’s talk about that ? Also Black Heart Gang I’m trying to Film Perspective of a man Episodes so I need 3-4 men if you down hit my Instagram for deets… Got a story or conversation you wanna talk about/ tell me? Message me about getting on the podcast for the guest schedule. Let’s talk about the conversation more on Social Media.

    YouTube: Kristian Valerie.Martinez

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    22 mins
  • Be Consistent
    Oct 2 2024

    Hello Black Heart Gang 🖤!!

    Welcome Back to this week’s episode. I know all you want a little consistency in your life. Yup! I’m talking about in all Realationships of Your Life. Whether that be Dating to find a potential partner, a current relationship, friendships , or even family. Some people lack consistency and it should be talked about and regulated at some point. Dating is already hard enough why make it harder. ! Besides that I finally talked about my wants in a guy too I guess.. Got a story or conversation you wanna talk about/ tell me? Message me about getting on the podcast for the guest schedule. Let’s talk the conversation more on Social media!

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    37 mins
  • Don’t Blame Me
    Sep 25 2024

    Hello Black Heart Gang !!🖤

    Welcome back to this week’s episode. I know I’ve been away for a bit but I updated most of yall through the broadcast channel on IG I’ve been going through it. Mentally I’ve been just going through a lot and I didn’t really know what or how to deal with it at the so I just shoved it down. While doing that I got angrier and angrier which made my anger issues a problem for me and the people around me. So I’m accountability for that in this podcast as well as talking about so things I need to bring to the light … Got a story or conversation you wanna talk about/ tell me? Message me about getting on the podcast for the guest schedule. Let’s talk the conversation more on Social media!

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    25 mins
  • Accept it for What it is & Move on
    Sep 11 2024

    Hello Black Heart Gang! 🖤

    Welcome back to this week’s episode. A lot of struggle with the daily problem or just general problem accepting shit for what is it is. We tend to pick apart problems so much that we don’t have to accept them. In reality we should be sitting and realizing that some of the many problems we have or holding onto should be accepted for what they are so that we can move on and move forward with our lives. Whether that be with friends, family, relationships, and etc. Sometimes it’s hard but you gotta think about you in the long run. Got a story or conversation you wanna talk about/ tell me? Message me about getting on the podcast for the guest schedule. Let’s talk the conversation more on Social media!

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    20 mins
  • He’s Just Not That Into You
    Aug 28 2024

    Hello Black Heart Gang!🖤

    Welcome back to this week’s episode. I decided to let yall in on something I recently learned and feel I should’ve learned before getting into the dating game. The 5-6 signs that show or tell you he doesn’t want to be in a relationship with you or doesn’t see a relationship with you. Sometimes I hear these things and I know better but I don’t actually learn them, we sat on live the other day talking about my Ls and Trust me your girl was learning. So let’s see y’all are allowing this shit to happen to you as well or already learned from your Ls?

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    31 mins