Hello Black Heart Gang! 🖤

Welcome back to this week’s episode. A lot of struggle with the daily problem or just general problem accepting shit for what is it is. We tend to pick apart problems so much that we don’t have to accept them. In reality we should be sitting and realizing that some of the many problems we have or holding onto should be accepted for what they are so that we can move on and move forward with our lives. Whether that be with friends, family, relationships, and etc. Sometimes it’s hard but you gotta think about you in the long run. Got a story or conversation you wanna talk about/ tell me? Message me about getting on the podcast for the guest schedule. Let’s talk the conversation more on Social media!

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Hello Black Heart Gang!🖤

Welcome back to this week’s episode. I decided to let yall in on something I recently learned and feel I should’ve learned before getting into the dating game. The 5-6 signs that show or tell you he doesn’t want to be in a relationship with you or doesn’t see a relationship with you. Sometimes I hear these things and I know better but I don’t actually learn them, we sat on live the other day talking about my Ls and Trust me your girl was learning. So let’s see y’all are allowing this shit to happen to you as well or already learned from your Ls?

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Hello Black Heart Gang!🖤

Welcome to this week’s episode. Today I decided to get into how I’ve been feeling and well what I’ve been trying to do in a sense. Being the middle child I felt like I had to grow up very quickly and with that I lost a lot of my childhood. So growing up I felt like I was always trying to figuring out my way between the two worlds adulthood and my childhood. So now I’m doing everything I can to heal my inner child because she didn’t get a fair shot… So question for yall Is your inner child healed or still healing?

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Hello Black Heart Gang!!🖤

Welcome back to this week’s episode. I really be exposing myself with yall at this point with yall and some of you be living for it. Honestly I’ve talked to yall about the dating stories but I need yall to know I’m at the point where I’m just tired of disappointed because I’m transparent about what I want and who I am; people will still persue me just to fucking waste my time like for what? That’s what gets me.. So I find that I’m obviously not the only one and we get into it. 
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Hello Black Heart Gang!! 🖤

Welcome Back to this week’s episode. If y’all have me on Instagram you have seen lately I’ve been talking a lot about support and how I have seen a lot of people lacking in that fucking department. A lot of you have friends and family starting to do content, open businesses, try new hobbies, and etc ; regardless of how much you say you f with them you don’t show an ounce of appreciation or support. It baffles me. It’s crazy that everyday people are going out of their way to get out of their comfort zone and do something new for themselves but family and friends don’t want to show any type of love for what they are doing instead I see a lot of sneak dissing. Y’all’s Character Is Really Being Shown! What I want yall to take from today’s episode is though is it takes more effort to scroll pass and ignore then it does to support and show love.

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Hello Black Heart Gang!! 🖤

Welcome Back to this week's episode we are talking about something that might not be something y'all want to get into but something needs to be said. Let's talk about Gaslightling since y'all want be doing it so much!! A good friend of mine asked me to talk about gaslighting and explain what it is..If I'm going to put some emphasis on this I also wanna share this please do not let these partners or people dim your light because you are the MAIN CHARACTER of your Story! YOUR FEELINGS are VALID! Here are some links and numbers for help if you need though partners or relationships...

DV Hotline: text BEGIN to 88788 or call 800-799-7233

Unhealthy Relationships DCFS: (800) 540-4000

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Hello Black Heart Gang!! 🖤

Welcome Back to this week's episode we are getting into talking about something that I feel needs to be pressed. Let's Normalize Not reaching out to men or women who don't or haven't replied to text, calls, dos and etc in days or hours!! A lot of people like to sit here and play this ghosting game and I think it's time we speak on it. We are at a stage in life where are all this ghosting and not being straight up about if you feeling someone or not is childish and bullshit.If I'm going to put some type of effort into to you I expect the same back or for you to be grown and sy this ain't what you want.I said this loud in the pod today EFFORT IS SEXY BUT MUTUAL EFFORT IS SEXIER!! Got a Story You Wanna tell message me about getting on the pod! Lets Talk about this Conversation More On social media HMU!

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Hello Black Heart Gang!! 🖤

Welcome Back to this week's episode we are getting into talking about something that everybody goes through and if you sit and tell me you don't lie again. A lot of people ask me and assume by the way I handle myself that I'm extremely good at taking rejection which is not too far from the truth because it's just a NO and there are many more fish in the sea, while one door closes there are so many other doors to open. So yea Rejection may not be the best feeling in the word but stop looking at as the worst thing and keep it pushing.. Got a Story You Wanna tell message me about getting on the pod! Lets Talk about this Conversation More On social media HMU!

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