In this episode, Brandon and Jess get real about the importance of standing up for yourself and setting boundaries, especially when it comes to dealing with people who might try to take advantage. They also dig into a topic that's all too relatable: the loneliness of big cities like NYC and how hard it can be to make genuine friends. They share tips for connecting with new people, plus dive into why they sometimes take forever to respond to each other’s texts (we’ve all been there!). Jess also opens up about a dream she had with Madden in it, sparking a deep conversation about what our dreams might mean.

Apologies for the sound quality in this episode! We thought new mics would solve the issue, but it seems the problem might be with the audio recorder itself. So the sound may be off for the next couple of episodes, but we’ll be troubleshooting it again after that. Trust us, we’re just as frustrated and tired of these ongoing issues—nothing ever seems to go smoothly!

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In today’s video, we’re exploring some unique and controversial practices in East Asia: Japan’s use of “mosquito noise”—a high-frequency sound only teens can hear—to keep young people from loitering, South Korea’s high dating standards that emphasize family and career status, the influence of powerful chaebol families that shape expectations for marriage and social success, and the gender bias in Japanese medical schools, where women’s entrance scores were manipulated despite their qualifications. Join us as we dive into what these practices reveal about societal norms and values across the region!

​​To clarify at the 16-minute mark, I meant a Western Asian country influenced by Western values and focused on cooperation—not defined strictly by geographic location.

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🎃 Happy Halloween! 👻 Ever wondered if there's more to life after death? Join Brandon and Jess as they dive into the eerie unknown—do you believe in ghosts, spirits, or an afterlife? They get deep about what they want for their own burial plans, exploring whether cemeteries are truly a respectful way to honor the departed or if they raise ethical questions about land use and permanence. Are we all secretly craving a lasting legacy, or is the idea of "forever" too much to handle?

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Jess and Brandon kick off this episode by diving into something light—fortune cookies! They share their fortunes and some laughs before Brandon takes us on a wild ride with his recent airplane experience. The conversation quickly escalates as Brandon opens up about his crazy trip to Japan, where he got attacked, pissed on (yes, really!), and struggled to find clothes in his size. They chat about the ups and downs of travel, from Brandon’s grievances with cleaning fees when we have to clean up ourselves to his love for luggage lockers. Things take a turn when Brandon talks about his Tokyo hotel disaster—black mold, athlete’s foot, and all. He also shares how he managed to roll both of his ankles, try real sushi for the first time, make his own chopsticks, and even get chased by giant Asian hornets. It's a chaotic, hilarious, and unforgettable travel story that you don't want to miss!

By the way, a quick heads-up—next week's episode is going to be a little different. Since it's Halloween, we'll be dropping the episode on Thursday instead of our usual Wednesday slot. Get ready for a spooky surprise—it's going to be a creepy one!

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In this episode, Jess opens up about the challenges of her long-distance relationship and the depressive funks that sometimes hold her back. She reflects on the emotional toll and how it affects her daily life. We dive into why social media feels so output-driven and we compare public infrastructure in China and the U.S., exploring what each country is getting right (and wrong). Brandon shares his fear of corporate life and the pressure to fit into a career mold, and things get emotional as he talks about how deeply Jess being blacklisted from extracurricular clubs and sororities affects him. It's a raw, heartfelt conversation you don't want to miss!

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Inspired by the 'I've Had It' podcast (linked below), we dive into an episode full of rants, grievances, and a lot of laughs. Brandon and Jess take turns sharing what they’ve absolutely had it with—whether it's sweating through their clothes, the agony of LinkedIn, frustrations with monarchies, people walking in the middle of the street, bad grammar, and so much more! Tune in for some lighthearted (and maybe relatable) venting!

Apologies for the late upload this week! We’ll be dropping an extra episode this week to get back on schedule. We also want to apologize for the sound quality ONCE AGAIN — we're still figuring it out, but new mics are on the way and will be ready for Episode 22. I was sick after getting back from Japan, so editing took a little longer than usual. Thanks for your patience and continued support!

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Join us in this wild episode where Jess shares the jaw-dropping story of her recent trip to China! From being detained by the CCP claiming her to be an 'alien' to navigating a world without Google or common apps, Jess takes us on a rollercoaster ride through her experience. She and Brandon also dive into how a Chinese sales associate thought she and her sister were 'oversized,' and they break down the rich history and wonders of China along the way. You won't want to miss this wild blend of adventure, culture, and laughs!

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In this heartfelt episode, Jess and Brandon get deep with philosophical questions and a game of "Would You Rather." Emotions run high as they explore tough topics like, What did they do to hurt each other the most? When did they feel truly accepted by the other? Are people meant to be together for their entire lives? And, Would you rather lose trust in yourself or others? They even tackle the heart-wrenching dilemma of choosing between watching your dreams shatter or seeing all your relationships fail. Things take an emotional turn when Jess ends up in tears, reflecting on their journey together.

Plus, we apologize for the audio recorder dying at the end, but we promise the deep conversation is worth it!

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