I’m Trying, Dude.

By: Daniel Victor and Marcel Floruss
  • Summary

  • Welcome to I’m Trying, Dude—a podcast by two friends figuring out what it really means to be comfortable in our own skin. We’re exploring a new, more open definition of masculinity, drawing from the ups and downs of relationships—whether with ourselves, partners, family, or friends. Along the way, we’ve stumbled, grown, sought therapy, and learned from mistakes (plenty of them). This isn’t about having all the answers—it’s about sharing the process. If you’ve ever felt like you’re struggling to keep it together, you’re not alone. We’re right there with you, figuring it out one day at a time.
    Daniel Victor and Marcel Floruss
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Episodes
  • How to Be Alone & Actually Enjoy It (V-Day Edition)
    Feb 14 2025

    Learning to thrive solo & make the most of your time. Being alone doesn’t have to mean being lonely.

    Whether you’re single on Valentine’s Day or just looking to enjoy your own company more, we’re diving deep into what it actually means to thrive solo.

    We’re talking about:

    - The difference between being alone vs. feeling lonely

    - How to make solo time feel meaningful instead of isolating

    - Why your ability to enjoy yourself directly impacts your relationships

    - Practical ways to embrace solitude (solo dates, hobbies, self-reflection)

    - Our own experiences learning how to be comfortable alone

    - Plus, Marcel & Daniel share a powerful story from a recent breathwork session that unexpectedly hit deep.

    If you’ve ever struggled with being by yourself, this episode is for you.💬 What’s your go-to way to enjoy time alone? Drop it in the comments!

    👀 WATCH / LISTEN TO MORE:

    🎥 YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@imtryingdude

    📸 Follow us on IG: @ImTryingDude

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    42 mins
  • What If You Couldn’t Fail? Here’s Why It Changes Everything
    Feb 7 2025

    What if the only thing standing between you and the life you want… was your fear of failure? In today’s episode, we’re breaking down the thought experiment that could change everything.

    We dive into:

    • Why this question forces you to confront what you actually want.
    • The biggest excuses that stop people from even trying.
    • What happens if you love something but you’re actually bad at it?
    • Why failure makes things more fun, not less.
    • How to start moving toward the life you want today.

    We also take a detour into:

    • Daniel getting married (!!) and what commitment really means.
    • How to balance doing you while being in a happy relationship.
    • Why some people are more afraid of success than failure.

    It’s one of those episodes that will stick with you—so buckle up and let’s get into it.

    🎙️ Listen on Spotify, YouTube & Apple Podcasts
    📲 Follow us on IG: @imtryingdude
    💬 Drop a comment: What would YOU do if failure wasn’t an option?

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    45 mins
  • Permission to Cry: Emotions and the Modern Man
    Jan 31 2025

    For years, men have been told to "man up" and hold it in. But why? In this episode, Marcel and Daniel dive into the stigma around men crying, where it comes from, and why it’s time to let it go—literally. From childhood lessons about toughness to the science behind why crying is actually good for you, we’re breaking down what it really means to be strong.

    🗣️ Topics We Cover:

    Why men are told not to cry—and why that’s outdated The one tear rule vs. actually letting it out The paradox of vulnerability: Why we admire it in others but avoid it ourselves How repressed emotions affect mental and physical health Redefining “man up” for a new generation

    📝 Challenge of the Week:
    If you feel like crying, let it happen. No shame, no holding back—just let yourself feel.

    📲 Follow & Subscribe for More!
    🎧 Listen on Spotify, Apple, and all podcast platforms
    📸 Follow us on Instagram: @imtryingdude
    📩 Have a topic you want us to cover? DM us!

    #MensMentalHealth #MenAndTears #EmotionalStrength #Vulnerability #MentalHealthMatters


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    40 mins

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