If You Really Knew Me

By: Ben Sorrells & Kim Willey - Bridge Podcast Network
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  • Join Ben and Kim as they discuss ways to improve personal and professional relationships with some help from the Enneagram. A personality tool about motivations rather than behavior. They will share insights on how to use this tool all while keeping Jesus at the center of your life.
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  • Episode 42 - Reflections of God - Peace Type 9

    Episode 42 - Reflections of God - Peace Type 9
    Nov 15 2024
    In this enlightening episode of "If You Really Knew Me," hosts Kim Willey and Ben Sorrells delve into the core traits, strengths, and challenges faced by Type 9 individuals, aptly named the Peacemakers. Through personal anecdotes and scriptural references, the hosts explore the profound lessons all Enneagram types can learn from a healthy Type 9, emphasizing patience, the importance of having one's voice heard, and the creation of safe spaces for open communication.KEY TAKEAWAYS1. ORIENTATION TO TIME: Type 9s are past-oriented, focused on history and maintaining inner peace.2. TYPE 9 TRAITS: Type 9s are exceptional mediators and leaders due to their ability to understand multiple perspectives and facilitate peaceful communication. However, their core struggle with sloth and indolence can lead to disengagement if not managed well.3. LEARNING FROM A HEALTHY TIME 9: All Enneagram types can benefit from embracing personal desires, recognizing the importance of their voice, creating safe spaces for dialogue, exercising patience, and being gentle in interactions, reflecting the concept of "truth in love."RESOURCESYOUVERSION BIBLE APP: (Popular searches in 2023 related to peace and hope.)SIGN UP FOR: Monthly Enneagram Newsletter at https://www.wearethebridge.org/enneagram - Tips on understanding Enneagram types - Fun facts and behind-the-scenes content - Guest information, upcoming episodes, and events - Subscribe at https://www.wearethebridge.org/enneagramScriptures and songs related to peace discussed in this episode:Acronym for Peace (People Expressing A Christ Everlasting)Bible Verses: • “I have said these things to you, that in me you may have peace. In the world you will have tribulation. But take heart; I have overcome the world.” - John 16:33• “Don’t worry about anything; instead pray about everything. Tell God what you need, and thank him for all he has done. Then you will experience God’s peace, which exceeds anything we can understand. His peace will guard your hearts and minds as you live in Christ.” Philippians 4:6-7• “Now may the Lord of peace himself give you his peace at all times and in every situation. The Lord be with you all.” 2 Thessalonians 3:16• “You will keep in perfect peace all who trust in you, all whose thoughts are fixed on you!” Isaiah 26:3• “Turn away from evil and do good. Search for peace and work to maintain it.” ~ 1 Peter 3:11• Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you. I do not give to you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid. ~John 14:27SONG ABOUT GOD’S PEACEFind My Peace - Naomi RainePeace Be Still - Hope DarstPeace - Danny GokeyPrince of Peace - Josh BaldwinPeace - We the KingdomWAYS TO CONNECTWebsite: Visit our website, wearethebridge.org/enneagram, for more episodes, resources, and show notes.Social Media: Follow us for updates and more encouraging content:**Instagram**:@enneagrampodcast**Facebook**:@enneagrampodcastEmail: Have questions or suggestions? ben@wearethebridge.orgSubscribe and Review: Don’t forget to subscribe to us on your favorite podcast platform and leave a review to help others discover the show.Would you like to have YOUR question answered and maybe even featured on a future episode? Submit your enneagram question toben@wearethebridge.orgIf you find this information helpful to you, SUBSCRIBE and journey with us.If you’re not sure where to start but want to know more, refer to Ep 2 - The Enneagram ExplainedInfo credit: Beth McCord (Your Enneagram Coach)Hosts: Kim Willey and Ben SorrellsBen is a Certified Enneagram Coach through YEC and Beth McCordHelpful Links:Discover your Enneagram Type: Here's one that we like! YEC Enneagram Type AssessmentLearn about all 9 types: 9 Types OverviewIn-depth Enneagram Courses: YEC Enneagram Courses Please share If You Really Knew Me with a friend if you enjoyed this episode. If You Really Knew Me is still growing, and your positive review and 5-star rating would help.The Bridge Podcast Network is made possible by generous support from The Boardwalk Plaza Hotel and Victoria’s Restaurant on the boardwalk in Rehoboth Beach, Delaware - Open 7 days a week, year-round - Learn more at https://boardwalkplaza.comFeedback, or Show Ideas? Send an email to podcast@wearethebridge.orgDownload The Bridge Mobile App to get the latest podcast episodes as soon as they are published!
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    33 mins
  • Episode 41 - Special Guest - Jeremy Rosado

    Episode 41 - Special Guest - Jeremy Rosado
    Oct 18 2024
    In this heartfelt episode, hosts Kim and Ben welcome Jeremy Rosado, a contestant "American Idol" Season 11 and "The Voice" Season 21, to explore his life and Enneagram journey.Jeremy, a Type Two with a Three wing, discusses how his enneagram type profoundly influences his personal life, relationships, faith, and music career.He shares intimate stories about his family, particularly the significant impact of rescuing his sister from addiction, and how this inspired some of his most touching songs.The episode provides powerful insights into how understanding one's Enneagram type can lead to better self-awareness and more meaningful connections with others.KEY TAKEAWAYS1. Embracing Your Enneagram Type: Jeremy encourages fellow Twos to embrace their natural inclination to help others, even when it feels overwhelming. He stresses the importance of giving oneself grace and acknowledging the gift of making meaningful connections.2. Cultural Influence: Jeremy talks about the influence of his Puerto Rican heritage on his Enneagram type, revealing how his culture's emotional expressiveness amplifies his natural tendencies as a Two.3. Impact of Enneagram on Relationships: Understanding his enneagram type has helped Jeremy navigate his relationships more effectively, from his personal connections with family to his professional relationships.4. Music as a Reflection of Type Two: Jeremy discusses how his music, particularly songs like ""Still God,"" reflect his type Two personality—full of empathy, love, and the desire to connect deeply with others.5. Balancing Passion and Boundaries: Ben and Jeremy touch on the importance of setting boundaries for Twos, who often give more than they receive, to avoid burnout and maintain healthy relationships.CONNECT WITH JEREMY ROSADOWebsite: Visit Jeremy online at https://www.iamjeremyrosado.comSocial Media: Follow Jeremy for updatesInstagram - @iamjeremyrosadoFacebook - @IAMJEREMYROSADOWAYS TO CONNECTWebsite: Visit our website, wearethebridge.org/enneagram, for more episodes, resources, and show notes.Social Media: Follow us for updates and more encouraging content:**Instagram**:@enneagrampodcast**Facebook**:@enneagrampodcastEmail: Have questions or suggestions? ben@wearethebridge.orgSubscribe and Review: Don’t forget to subscribe to us on your favorite podcast platform and leave a review to help others discover the show.Would you like to have YOUR question answered and maybe even featured on a future episode? Submit your enneagram question toben@wearethebridge.orgIf you find this information helpful to you, SUBSCRIBE and journey with us.If you’re not sure where to start but want to know more, refer to Ep 2 - The Enneagram ExplainedInfo credit: Beth McCord (Your Enneagram Coach)Hosts: Kim Willey and Ben SorrellsBen is a Certified Enneagram Coach through YEC and Beth McCordHelpful Links:Discover your Enneagram Type: Here's one that we like! YEC Enneagram Type AssessmentLearn about all 9 types: 9 Types OverviewIn-depth Enneagram Courses: YEC Enneagram Courses Please share If You Really Knew Me with a friend if you enjoyed this episode. If You Really Knew Me is still growing, and your positive review and 5-star rating would help.The Bridge Podcast Network is made possible by generous support from The Boardwalk Plaza Hotel and Victoria’s Restaurant on the boardwalk in Rehoboth Beach, Delaware - Open 7 days a week, year-round - Learn more at https://boardwalkplaza.comFeedback, or Show Ideas? Send an email to podcast@wearethebridge.orgDownload The Bridge Mobile App to get the latest podcast episodes as soon as they are published!
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    29 mins
  • Episode 40 - Reflections of God - Strength and Protection of God Through a Type 8

    Episode 40 - Reflections of God - Strength and Protection of God Through a Type 8
    Sep 20 2024
    How has God’s strength and protection been on display in your life? Maybe he has spared you from harm or given you boldness in a situation.On this month’s podcast episode of If You Really Knew Me, Ben and Kim share personal stories of God’s strength and protection AND how we can learn to reflect these characteristics of God.In this insightful episode of "If You Really Knew Me," hosts Kim Willey and Ben Sorrells delve into the characteristics and spiritual reflections of Enneagram Type Eights.Highlighting themes of God's strength and protection, they weave personal anecdotes and biblical references to discuss how Type Eights can embody these divine qualities.From powerful stories of natural disasters to acts of courage and protection, Kim and Ben explore the intensity and boldness of Type Eights and how these traits align with God's nature.KEY TAKEAWAYS1. God’s Strength and Protection: Kim and Ben shared examples of feeling protected by God's strength in situations ranging from life-threatening weather events to personal crises. Emphasizing that God's strength can manifest in various forms can provide comfort.2. Understanding Type Eight: Type Eights are characterized by their assertiveness, protective nature, and deep desire for control and strength. They are often seen as challengers who defend their inner circle passionately.3. Balancing Intensity with Vulnerability: Despite their tough exterior, Type Eights need to learn to balance their bold nature with tenderness and vulnerability. Learning from their stress and security points (types Two and Five) is pivotal.4. Spiritual Connection and Growth: Alignment with the gospel helps Type Eights to utilize their strength to help others and avoid destructive behavior. It’s important to trust in God's unwavering support.5. Practical Scripture References and Songs: Here are some powerful scriptures about God's strength and protection, alongside meaningful songs that echo the theme of divine protection and strength.BIBLE VERSES:Isaiah 54:17 (NLT) - But in that coming day no weapon turned against you will succeed. You will silence every voice raised up to accuse you. These benefits are enjoyed by the servants of the LORD ; their vindication will come from me. I, the LORD, have spoken!2 Thessalonians 3:3 (NIV) - But the Lord is faithful, and he will strengthen you and protect you from the evil one.Psalm 46:1 (NIV) - God is our refuge and strength, an ever-present help in trouble.Isaiah 41:10 (NIV) - So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right handPsalm 32:7 (NIV) - You are my hiding place; you will protect me from trouble and surround me with songs of deliverance.1 Chronicles 16:11 (ESV) - Seek the Lord and his strength; seek his presence continually!Isaiah 40:29 (ESV) - He gives power to the faint, and to him who has no might he increases strength.Psalm 29:11 (ESV) - May the Lord give strength to his people! May the Lord bless his people with peace!Ephesians 3:20 (NIV) - God is able to do far more than we could ever ask for or imagine. He does everything by his power that is working in us.1 Corinthians 6:14 (NIV) - By his power God raised the Lord from the dead, and he will raise us also.SONGS ABOUT GOD’S STRENGTH & PROTECTION Take it all back - Tauren WellsYour Love Defends Me - Matt MaherNever Lost - Elevation WorshipWon’t He do it - We the KingdomPower - Chris Tomlin & Bear RhinehartMy God Can - Katy Nichole & Naomi RaineCount ‘Em - Brandon LakeWAYS TO CONNECTWebsite: Visit our website, wearethebridge.org/enneagram, for more episodes, resources, and show notes.Social Media: Follow us for updates and more encouraging content:**Instagram**:@enneagrampodcast**Facebook**:@enneagrampodcastEmail: Have questions or suggestions? ben@wearethebridge.orgSubscribe and Review: Don’t forget to subscribe to us on your favorite podcast platform and leave a review to help others discover the show.Would you like to have YOUR question answered and maybe even featured on a future episode? Submit your enneagram question toben@wearethebridge.orgIf you find this information helpful to you, SUBSCRIBE and journey with us.If you’re not sure where to start but want to know more, refer to Ep 2 - The Enneagram ExplainedInfo credit: Beth McCord (Your Enneagram Coach)Hosts: Kim Willey and Ben SorrellsBen is a Certified Enneagram Coach through YEC and Beth McCordHelpful Links:Discover your Enneagram Type: Here's one that we like! YEC Enneagram Type AssessmentLearn about all 9 types: 9 Types OverviewIn-depth Enneagram Courses: YEC Enneagram Courses Please share If You Really Knew Me with a friend if you enjoyed this episode. If You Really Knew Me is still growing, and your positive review and 5-star rating would help.The Bridge Podcast Network is made possible by generous support from The Boardwalk Plaza Hotel and Victoria’s Restaurant on the boardwalk in ...
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