When Paul Rucklidge-Smith's mother Dot started to experience mental health issues in later life, he did everything he could to keep his mother safe. Dot was living with manic depression and dementia, and after several stays in mental health units across Essex, she was put into in a hospital where she started to decline further. She told Paul that she thought she would die if he didn't get her out of there. And tragically, she was right. This is Dot's story, told by her son Paul. Follow Melanie Leahy's fight for justice: https://curementalhealth.co.uk/ https://www.facebook.com/groups/470129540220825/ To find out more about the Lampard Inquiry: https://lampardinquiry.org.uk/ Please note this episode includes both references to sexual assault, self-harm and suicide. If you need support, please see the links below to organisations that can help: https://www.mind.org.uk/ - Mental health & Identity support https://www.spuk.org.uk/ - Suicide Prevention UK https://www.samaritans.org/ - The Samaritans https://988lifeline.org/ - Suicide Prevention USA https://www.suicidepreventionaust.org/ - Suicide Prevention Australia https://www.pieta.ie/ - Suicide Prevention Ireland If you would like to support for the show, you can do so here, thank you so much: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/podcast4justice EPUTS ROR via their website: https://eput.nhs.uk/the-lampard-inquiry/ To see other podcasts by Naomi Channell, please find the information here: https://linktr.ee/realtruecrimepodcast Naomi produces a weekly true crime podcast called 'Real', as well as other multipart deep dives including: 'His Name Was Stuart Lubbock' 'Her Name Was Claudia Lawrence' 'Through The Wall: The Case Against Luke Mitchell' 'What Happened To Charlene Downes?' 'Who Killed Billie-Jo?' Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices