In this eye-opening episode, Sam and Gen uncover the truth about their rushed marriage: they both acted on assumptions about what the other wanted.

With guest host & psychotherapist Alanna's support, they delve into the overlooked red flags and communication breakdowns that occurred during Year 1 of their marriage, as well as the impact of their assumptions. Samuel also shares what he believes to be the crowning achievement of their time a married couple.

As they navigate this challenging conversation, they end up rediscovering some of the love and admiration that brought them together in the first place.

Key Points:

• Rushed into Marriage: Both Sam and Gen acknowledge that they rushed into their marriage, driven by a desire to move quickly and a competitive spirit.
• Ignored Red Flags: They discuss how they overlooked red flags in their relationship, such as their differing communication styles and unresolved personal issues.
• Communication Breakdown: They delve into specific instances of poor communication, including Sam's tendency to escalate arguments and Gen's habit of withdrawing.
• Personal Growth: Both individuals reflect on their personal growth and the lessons they've learned from their marriage.
• Future Hopes: They discuss their hopes for the future, including building a stronger foundation for future relationships and using their experiences to help others.

Timestamps:

0:00 - 10:00: Introduction and discussion of rushing into marriage.

10:00 - 20:00: Deep dive into communication breakdowns and unresolved issues.

20:00 - 30:00: Reflection on personal growth and lessons learned.

30:00 - 33:38: Future hopes and concluding thoughts.