Life is such a myriad of assumptions, requirements, projections and standards, especially when it comes to interpersonal and romantic relationships. We take our unique style and try to find someone to complement that and also even mirror it. But it’s pretty impossible because we’re all different.

Yet we give advice and receive advice throughout our life and how can this advice always ring true for you - it’s received by you but given by someone else. What works for one person may not work for another, and therefore we receive and perceive everything so differently. That’s why we just all need to be ourselves and make our own choices without guilt, shame or judgement. The key here is to accept and own ourselves with grace and compassion, and extend this human right to others in your space.

We’re all products of our own environment, our past, our present, our genetics, our epigenetics, our childhood and our adult relationships - we are shaped by so much and this is even more apparent as we move through life. When you hit your 40’s you’ve usually worked out who you are and are ready to either lean into that or make some changes so you can become the person you’re now ready to be. We can't be railroaded to be who someone else wants us to be. So just be you and do your own thing.

In this episode I’ll go through what shapes us in life from trauma to attachment types to societal conditioning, personal values and even your horoscope. If you mix everything up we will never be a mirror image of anyone. And that’s okay. We need to embrace the value of difference and accept who and how we are. The episode will finish with a snapshot of how to do you for you.

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