A powerful conversation with Tabitha Westbrook, a licensed therapist and trauma specialist, as she sheds light on the challenging journey of reconciliation in abusive marriages—where it happens only 2-10% of the time. With compassion and insight, Tabitha discusses the essential role of humility and healthy shame in the healing process. She underscores the importance of a collaborative approach, involving advocates, counselors, and pastors, to effectively address domestic abuse. Tabitha also bravely challenges common misconceptions about pornography, affirming its destructive impact on relationships, equating it to adultery. Don’t miss her insights on healing sexuality after trauma, as previewed in her upcoming book, "Body and Soul, Healed and Whole." Tune in for a conversation that invites you to find hope and strength in your healing journey.

SHOW NOTES:

Tabitha Westbrook:

• Body & Soul, Healed & Whole: An Invitational Guide to Healthy Sexuality after Trauma, Abuse, and Coercive Control by Tabitha Westbrook
• Trauma Support Services

Resources mentioned:

• Church-Based Counseling series by Brad Hambrick.
• When Home Hurts:A Guide for Responding Wisely to Domestic Abuse in Your Church by Jeremy Pierre and Greg Wilson
• Called to Peace
• ChrisMoles.org
• Peaceworks is Chris Moles training arm and Protect the Flock is a seminar Called to Peace offers to churches.

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