Delusional By Choice

By: Dayanara Gonzalez
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  • Delusional by Choice with Dayanara — In this podcast, I’ll share unfiltered thoughts and personal lessons on powering through tough times, facing difficult conversations we’d rather avoid, and defying societal norms. Each episode is like a journal entry—raw, real, and packed with positivity to help you keep moving forward, no matter what. We’ll embrace the idea of "delusion" as a powerful tool because, while life doesn’t always go according to plan, we always have the choice in how we show up. If you’re tired of fitting in, you’re in the right place. It’s time to take risks and stay true to who you are.


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Episodes
  • Untitled Episode
    Jan 23 2025

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    In this episode, we explore how willpower, self-control, and self-discipline can help you stay grounded during life’s toughest moments. Building on Freud’s iceberg model, I break down how these tools shape our decisions and how awareness can prevent emotional chaos. Plus, I share an eye-opening study on cultural differences in how we view willpower.

    If you're looking for ways to strengthen your mental resilience and stay focused on your goals, this episode is for you!




    1. The Remarkable Tale of Phineas Gage - 5min Video

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aw0zbyQVCEc&t=302s

    2. Reverse Ego-Depletion: Acts of Self-Control Can Improve Subsequent Performance in Indian Cultural Contexts

    https://www.krishnasavani.com/CV_files/Savani_Job_2017.pdf

    3. What you need to know about willpower: The psychological science of self-control

    https://www.apa.org/topics/personality/willpower

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    17 mins
  • My Life’s in Shambles, But at Least I Have Freud
    Jan 9 2025

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    The end of 2024 hit me hard, leaving me in a dark mental space with a storm of emotions —many of which contradicted each other. Stuck, confused, and searching for clarity, I turned to Freud’s Iceberg Model—exploring the Superego, Ego, and Id—to make sense of it all. In this episode, I share the perspectives that helped me unpack my conflicting feelings and begin the journey back to myself.


    https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC4076885/
    https://www.simplypsychology.org/psyche.html

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    28 mins
  • Breaking the Rules You’ve Created for Yourself
    Dec 19 2024

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    In this episode, we explore the self-imposed “false rules” that keep us from taking chances and growing. From limiting beliefs about our abilities to fear of failure, these invisible barriers hold us back in big ways. I’ll share how recognizing and breaking free from these rules—along with giving ourselves the grace of a second chance—can unlock new possibilities for growth. Ready to challenge your own false rules?

    SUPPORT THE SHOW:
    Love what you hear? Show your support by subscribing, leaving a review, and rating the podcast!

    Don't forget to follow @delusional_bychoicepodcast and @dayag_24 on Instagram, and tag us in your posts to share the love! Every bit of support means more than you know and helps fuel more episodes! ❤️

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    19 mins

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