Once married, did you learn things about your spouse you didn’t know before the “I dos”? Maybe they cook less after “I dos.” Maybe they care for their bodies less after “I dos.” Maybe they open the door for you less after “I dos.” Whatever it is, you’re not feeling it.

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We’re talking about it again. Money! Money, for the most part, is a challenge for any relationship. Think about it. It brings out power, uncertainty, trust, and security. For women and love, it’s about security and safety.

So, should a man believe a woman who says it’s ok he makes less than her?

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Have you ever kicked it with someone, maybe during a flight home, who you thought was available because, after all they're not wearing a wedding ring, only to find out, after chatting awhile, they are married? WTF. Wear your ring!!

Listen to learn more.

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Men deserve love, too. Ladies, when was the last time you fed your man's soul?

In this episode, we share the importance and ways of uplifting your man's spirit.

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Your co-hosts of @damperspectives are talking about dating younger potentials than we/you typically have or do. Is it better? As always, we talk from our experiences to provide context. As always, we have stories, funny stories. In this episode, we share a few benefits and pitfalls of dating younger or older potentials. In reality, it’s really up to you what is “better.”

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We're back! Did you miss us? Cuz we missed you!

After a few months of self-care, your cohosts of @damperspectives are talking about not doing things in order when it comes to having babies. So, why do you, any of you, have to be married or married at all to have a baby? You don't. While this is not new news, it still deserves air time to normalize the unnormalize. We talk about the benefits of and the challenges, not impossible, sides of doing it on your own.

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Divorced and back in the dating game. What is that like? After 21 years of marriage, our guest Byron shares his experience with online dating. He shares what he looks for and what he sees, how people actually act, and concludes “dating is frightening.” We enjoyed talking with him and learned alot about online dating after divorce.

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Are you in a long distance relationship? Maybe you’re online dating and you need to expand beyond your city for more options?

@damperspectives is teaming up with @mynakedmindset to talk about things to consider if you’re exploring a long distance relationship with your new or “old” partner.

But, the first major question to ask yourself: How do you know this person is worth the work that comes with making a long distance relationship work?

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