Many parents find themselves in a pattern; they calmly ask their kids to do something and nothing happens. Then they repeat the ask, repeat it again, with one more reminder and then…the parent blows up. When kids don't listen, parents often feel the need to take back control and you can almost guarantee that you'll enter into a power struggle where no one comes out as the winner. In this repeat episode, you'll learn that misbehaviour is always a symptom of a deeper issue, what causes it, and the strategies to correct it. Amy McCready — who describes herself as a “recovering yeller” — is the Founder of Positive Parenting Solutions and the author of two best-selling parenting books: If I Have to Tell You One More Time and The “Me, Me, Me” Epidemic. To learn more about Amy check out https://www.positiveparentingsolutions.com/.

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Cat’s already planning her 69th birthday party—because, 69! Naturally there’s going to be doggy-style cupcakes and probably a few other surprises. We couldn’t end the podcast without talking about Nat’s “Puss Power.” What is that, you ask? Listen to find out! We’re wrapping up the year by celebrating with our families and bringing you some of our favorite reruns over the holidays. But don’t worry, we’ll be back with a brand-new season in the New Year! See you soon!

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Cat literally lives in athleisure so it made perfect sense to chat with Denise Lee, entrepreneur and founder of Alala, a self-funded multi-million dollar apparel brand that not only brings joy to women through sophisticated, high quality clothing, but also seeks to advance dialogue around body positivity and diversity. Denise left her family and moved halfway around the world, from Singapore to New York by herself to pursue her ambitions of turning her dreams into reality. Denise chats about the mentality of a bootstrap business, her core principles, running an all women business and the obstacles she overcame along the way. Discover the one piece from the Alala clothing line that has transformed Denise's life! For more on Alala head over to @alala.

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Christmas is just a week away, and things are getting wild. Moms, we see you juggling a million things to make the magic happen. Listen to Cat's analogy about paper plates vs. platters because it's a bit mind blowing. We’re taking a little break to soak up the holidays with our families, so enjoy some of our favourite reruns until we’re back with a brand-new season. See you soon, and happy holidays! ✨

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The holiday season is here, and with it comes those never-ending wish lists from our kids, even though half of it will be forgotten by February. If we quizzed them on what they got last year, they’d probably fail. And that’s our parenting conundrum this week: how do you manage the chaos of over-the-top holiday requests? We’re also tackling the bigger parenting struggle—the push and pull of wanting your kids to be their absolute best without pushing them so far that they end up resenting you. Do you back off or lean in? How much is too much?

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‘Tis the season for traveling and getting creative with keeping the spark alive—even when you’re sharing a house with thin walls. We’re bringing you the ultimate hacks for having sex at your in-laws’ this holiday season! And let’s talk about the future—when it’s our kids doing the same in our house. Will we play it cool, or will we leave hints? We need to know—are you one of those people who need these hacks? Drop us a comment or DM if you’ve ever been caught (and tell us everything)!

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We had so much fun talking with Kim and Penn that we had to bring it to you in two parts! In this repeat episode we chatted about living with ADHD as an adult, what content creation might look like in the future and more! If you don't know The Holderness Family, their videos have resulted in over a billion views and over 7.5 million followers across their social media platforms since they (accidentally) went viral in 2013 with their Christmas Jammies video. They have a best-selling book on marriage communication, a top-rated podcast, a fun-filled family card game, and most recently, they were the winners on Season 33 of The Amazing Race. Through their comedy, they tackle topics like living with ADHD, anxiety and so much more. Follow them @theholdernessfamily.

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We’re talking about holding space for the “ugly” days—the ones where life just feels messy and whether we do the exact same thing as the day before, it's just one of those days. And if we need space for having an ugly day, so do our kids. Let's normalize the fact that you don't have to love everything, every single day. We need to stop fighting this feeling, there is always tomorrow or this afternoon. It's ok if it doesn't change. You can have bad days. And so can your kids.

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