In this episode of "Boldly Untitled," Shawny and Melly Mel did something a little different. They ask some bold ass questions and they're not shy about the tough stuff either—ultimatums, open relationships, and the big question of whether exes can ever really be "just friends." They wrap things up with a look at long-distance love and the role of physical attraction, all while keeping it grown and sexy for their audience.

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We're keeping it 100 as we explore the highs and lows of love. Ever wondered if joint bank accounts are the secret sauce to a happy marriage or a recipe for disaster? We're tackling that head-on, weighing the pros and cons with a dash of our own life lessons. We also ask:

What do you think about ultimatums?

Do you believe in soulmates?

Can you really be friends with an ex?

How do you show affection?

Would you have an open relationship?

Would you ever go on a blind date?

Melly Mel and I are sharing our takes on these dating dilemmas. Tune in to see how we answer these bold ass questions.

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In this episode Shawny and Melly Mel have a heart-to-heart about what it really means to be successful. They talk about how people often think success is all about having a lot of money, but they believe it's much more than that. Shawny tells her own story about leaving her job in accounting to become an event planner, highlighting how important it is to do what you love and to keep going, even when things get tough.

Melly chimes in to say that it's not quite right to see success as just having a big bank account or being in charge. She suggests that we should look at success in a more complex way. They also discuss the ups and downs of starting and running your own business, including figuring out how to make your brand stand out and deciding which opportunities to take. Throughout the conversation, they encourage listeners to keep pushing forward and to be kind to themselves while chasing their dreams.

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We dive deep into what success really means. Forget the flashy cars and bank statements; we're talking about the success that resonates with your soul. We explore why it's crucial to set your own benchmarks and celebrate the victories that truly matter to you.

Success isn't served on a silver platter, and we get real about the grit it takes to reach your goals. But with confidence and a support squad, you're unstoppable.

Shawny gets personal and shares her leap of faith from the world of accounting to the vibrant realm of event planning.

Melly brings her wisdom to the table, challenging the notion that success equals wealth and influence. We ponder the real value of money and power, urging you to look beyond society's yardstick and find what success means to you.

We open up about the struggle to balance empathy with business savvy. It's a journey of hard work and learning to align opportunities with my core values – a lesson in discernment that's been a game-changer.

Timestamps:

Defining Success (00:01:24)
Measuring Success (00:02:29)
Challenges of Success (00:06:39)
Success and Money (00:10:36)
Individual Goals and Success (00:13:57)
Power and Influence (00:17:18)
Overcoming Challenges (00:20:17)
The circle of influence (00:21:19)
Persistence and learning from failure (00:21:53)
Struggle with empathy in business (00:22:47)
Defining success and setting boundaries (00:23:07)

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In today's episode we dive into the topic of friendship between the opposite sex.

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In this podcast episode, Shawny and Melly Mel engage in a deep conversation about crying, vulnerability, and societal expectations, particularly for men. They share personal anecdotes, revealing their own discomfort with crying and how they've observed similar behavior in their families. They discuss the stigma against men showing emotions, with Melly admitting her past negative views on men crying.

The dialogue also covers the need for safe spaces for men and children to express vulnerability, the impact of upbringing on emotional expression, and the importance of communication in relationships. They recommend books, debate cutting off toxic family members, and advise a listener on rekindling a friendship. The episode emphasizes empathy, understanding, and the significance of emotional health and self-care.

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We chat about how shedding tears is not just a natural response but a powerful release of pent-up energy. It's time we embrace our emotions, and yes, that includes the men in our lives.

We get real about the challenges men face when it comes to showing their softer side. Melly shared her personal desire for her husband to match her vulnerability and the importance of mental check-ins with our loved ones. Plus, we can't forget about our kids – they need to feel heard and supported too.

We explore how expressing needs and setting expectations are crucial for a thriving relationship. We even touch on the proactive power of couples therapy – because why wait for a storm to learn how to sail your ship?

Is it okay to cut off toxic family members? It's a tough one, but we share our thoughts on protecting your peace and curating a circle of positivity.

And for that listener dilemma – should you rekindle a friendship with someone who ghosted you? We offer our takes, and let's just say, we don't exactly see eye to eye.

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The episode is a powerful reflection on overcoming adversity and finding purpose.

In this special episode of "Boldly Untitled," Lori, a burn survivor, shares her harrowing story of abduction and her courageous journey to recovery. Despite enduring an abduction, being set on fire, and facing a challenging healing process, Lori's resilience and positive outlook are striking.

She talks about her daily struggle with pain, her work at a burn clinic, and her aspirations to inspire and support other burn victims. The hosts, Shawny and Melly Mel admire Lori's strength and discuss her potential as a public speaker and founder of a foundation for burn victims.

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Imagine waking up in the back of a van, facing the unthinkable, and still finding the will to fight back.

Despite severe injuries and a coma, Lori's determination to walk again, to reclaim her life, is a powerful reminder of what we are all capable of overcoming.

Our conversation with Lori wasn't just about her past; it was about her present and future. Every day, she faces physical pain, yet she shows up with a smile, works with children, and offers hope to other burn victims.

Lori's ability to connect and motivate others has opened up the possibility of her becoming a public speaker and starting a foundation for burn victims. Her potential to change lives is immense, and we wholeheartedly encourage her to pursue this path.

We also took a moment to reflect on what we'd tell our younger selves. The advice shared is a treasure trove of wisdom that I hope will resonate with you as much as it did with us.

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Connect with Lori on social media: https://www.facebook.com/pirate.gma?mibextid=LQQJ4d

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Timestamps:

Lori's Survial Story (00:00:00)

Lori's Abduction (00:02:41)

Recovery and Moving Forward (00:07:00)

Facing Physical Changes (00:17:08)

Finding Strength and Purpose (00:19:58)

Resilience in the Face of Pain (00:22:32)

Parenting Through Trauma (00:24:17)

The Power of Inner Strength (00:27:28)

Motivating and Encouraging Others (00:29:38)

Starting a Foundation (00:32:33)

Advice to Younger Self (00:35:31)

Connecting with Lori (00:38:50)

Closing Remarks (00:39:54)

In this episode, Shawny and Melly Mel explore the intricacies of personal relationships and the pursuit of a "soft life". They candidly discuss the challenges of work-life balance, societal pressures on black women, and the realities versus social media portrayals of an effortless life.

Sharing personal experiences, they dive into the importance of emotional support in relationships, the dynamics of being a stay-at-home parent, and the quest for a balanced partnership. They also respond to a listener's concern about ambition disparities in marriage, emphasizing understanding and realistic expectations.

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After 4 years of flying solo, Shawny is ready to dip her toes back into the dating pool. I've learned a ton about myself, especially when it comes to communication and recognizing when it's time to walk away. I'm excited to share my insights on what I'm looking for in my next chapter of love.

Melly opened up about the whirlwind of being a stay-at-home mom to twins and how she and her husband are redefining traditional roles to create a more balanced home life. It's all about teamwork and tossing those outdated expectations out the window!

We got real about what a "soft life" means to us. It's not just about financial ease; it's about creating a life filled with peace, security, and the freedom to enjoy the little things—like spontaneous trips and dining out without the weight of the world on our shoulders.

Don't let those perfect Instagram lives fool you. We talked about the importance of substance in relationships and the dangers of comparing our behind-the-scenes to someone else's highlight reel.

Beyond the laughs, we touched on the deeper aspects of relationships—finding that emotional and mental support that helps us navigate past traumas and build a future filled with genuine connection.

💌 Listener's Corner: We responded to a heartfelt letter from a husband feeling out of sync with his wife. Tune in to hear our 'expert' advice!

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Timestamps:

Domestic Responsibilities (00:04:14)

Stay-at-Home Spouse (00:05:23)

Soft Life Concept (00:10:46)

Work-Life Balance (00:15:46)

Financial Security (00:19:58)

Soft Life and Financial Security (00:22:49)

Challenges Faced by Black Women (00:23:47)

Value of Education and Work Experience (00:24:46)

Stay-at-Home Parenting (00:25:42)

Relationship Dynamics and Pandemic Experience (00:26:45)

Creating a Soft Life and Financial Stability (00:29:21)

Expectations in Relationships (00:32:23)

Generational Perspectives on a "Soft Life" (00:33:26)

Financial Expectations in Relationships (00:38:54)

Dilemma in Marriage (00:43:21)

Dating and Ambition (00:45:11)

Support in Relationships (00:46:40)

Creating a Soft Life (00:52:34)

In this episode of Boldly Untitled™, Shawny and Melly Mel reflect on their holiday family traditions, comparing Caribbean and American customs. They delve into the complexities of family dynamics, discussing the challenges of large family gatherings and the nuances of generational traumas and curses.

They candidly share their own experiences with family secrets and the importance of breaking negative cycles for the sake of their children. The hosts also explore the delicate balance of parenting, striving to create open communication with their kids while avoiding the pitfalls they experienced in their own upbringings.

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We took a trip down memory lane, exploring our holiday traditions and how they've evolved over the years. From the vibrant Christmas Eve celebrations in Guyana to the intimate family gatherings that have shaped our lives, we've got stories that'll warm your heart and maybe even spark some of your own holiday nostalgia.

We got real about the impact of generational traumas and curses on our families. It's a topic that's close to our hearts, and we're committed to changing these patterns for our children's sake. Listen in as we share our personal journeys of self-awareness and the steps we're taking to create a healthier future for the next generation.

Parenting is no walk in the park, and we're not afraid to talk about the struggles and the wins. From fostering open communication with our kids to catching ourselves before we repeat the patterns of our parents, we're navigating this wild ride one step at a time. Join us as we discuss the delicate balance of guiding our children while also learning to let them grow.

Change isn't easy, but it's necessary. We're inviting you to commit to your own journey of transformation. Whether it's breaking free from past traumas, reshaping your family dynamics, or simply being a better version of yourself, we're here to support you every step of the way.

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In this episode of Boldly Untitled™, Shawny and Melly Mel kick off their second season by reflecting on their past year and setting intentions for the new one. They discuss the challenges of 2023, with Shawny revealing her travels and decision to close her brick-and-mortar business and consider returning to a 9-to-5 job.

They talk about goal setting, the pressure of new year's resolutions, and the importance of self-care and making decisions for personal happiness. The duo also touches on manifesting, with Shawny sharing her experience with self-worth in job offers and the power of positive energy in her work as a wedding planner.

They candidly explore the impact of language in interracial relationships and the influence of hip-hop culture. The conversation emphasizes the significance of setting boundaries, respecting cultural differences, and prioritizing one's own well-being.

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We've been besties for a quarter of a century (can you believe it?), and we've got some stories to tell. From the ups and downs of 2023 to the fresh vibes of 2024, we're getting real about our journeys. We're not just talking about the typical new year's resolutions; we're sharing the raw truth about what happens when things don't go as planned and how we pick ourselves back up.

Melly's got a confession: she's never been big on vision boards. But that doesn't mean she's not all about growth. This year, it's all about health for Shawny, and she's already taking steps toward that goal. Melly is taking life month by month, and honestly, it's a vibe we could all consider.

We're also peeling back the layers on some tough decisions we've made. I'm talking about the kind of choices that steer the course of our lives, like closing a business or diving back into the 9 to 5 grind. It's all about doing what's right for us, and sometimes that means saying no to things we don't love (even if it's just a TV show).

Travel has been a game-changer for us, and we're urging you to pack your bags and see the world. It's about more than just sightseeing; it's about the transformation that comes from new experiences and perspectives.

We're not shying away from the tough topics, either. We're tackling the complexities of interracial relationships and the importance of language and respect. It's a candid conversation that might just challenge you to think differently.

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