Episode Summary:

In this episode of Blessed + Bossed Up, we continue our book club journey through Leadership as an Identity by Crawford W. Loritz, focusing on Chapter 3: "Surrendering to God." Tatum dives deep into the foundational Christian principle of surrender and explores how living a life fully submitted to God transforms your leadership and aligns you with His will. Drawing from Romans 12:1-2 and the life of King Uzziah, Tatum highlights the dangers of pride, the importance of humility, and how consistent surrender ensures God’s hand remains on your life and leadership.

Key Points:

• Book Club Update:
• We’re reading Leadership as an Identity. Catch up on past episodes for insights on Chapters 1 and 2.
• Grab your copy via the link in the show notes and join us as we read through Chapter 6 or 7 before our winter break.
• Episode Highlights:
• The transformative power of surrender as emphasized in Romans 12:1-2.
• How brokenness leads to true surrender.
• The formula: Surrender + Transformation = Discernment of God’s Will.
• The importance of living a consecrated life to experience God’s guidance and blessings.
• Lessons from King Uzziah’s Life (2 Chronicles 26):
• The dangers of pride and self-reliance.
• How consistent success without surrender leads to downfall.
• Three key lessons on leadership, humility, and the consequences of stepping outside of God’s boundaries.
• Challenge:
• Tatum proposes a “Winter Surrender Challenge” inspired by the “Winter Arc” trend. Use the remaining weeks of the year to:
• Focus on surrendering your life fully to God.
• Practice daily holiness through conscious choices in media, food, rest, and service.
• Limit worldly influences and prioritize time in the Word.

Homework:

• Read and reflect on 2 Chronicles 26 to study King Uzziah’s story.
• Identify areas in your life where you can deepen your surrender to God.

Resources Mentioned:

• Leadership as an Identity by Crawford W. Loritz – https://a.co/d/hcoWf8X
• Bible apps for daily study: Dwell, Abide, and YouVersion.

We explore one of the core traits of godly leadership: Brokenness. This chapter opens with a story about Jason, a fictional character embodying the struggles many leaders face when pride and self-sufficiency creep in. His journey shows how brokenness and dependence on God are essential for lasting influence.

1. The Danger of Self-Sufficiency

• Jason’s story highlights how pride can lead to isolation, even when outward success is evident. His struggles serve as a reminder that self-sufficiency is a subtle but dangerous trap.

1. What is Brokenness?

• Brokenness is a conscious, ongoing awareness of your need for God in all things. It’s not a one-time event but a lifestyle that keeps you humble and dependent on Him.

1. Inadequacy as a Strength

• Feeling inadequate is an opportunity to rely on God’s power. Leaders often face assignments bigger than their natural abilities, and that gap is where God shows up.

1. The Role of Humility in Leadership

• Whether young or experienced, leaders must guard against pride. The author emphasizes that godly leadership requires character over competence and dependency over self-reliance.

1. Isaiah 57:15

• This scripture beautifully captures God’s dual nature: His sovereignty and His closeness to the humble and brokenhearted. He revives those who acknowledge their need for Him.

If you’re facing an overwhelming task, remember: There is always a gap between what you have and what God wants done. Let this gap drive you to deeper dependence on Him. Your inadequacy is not a barrier but an invitation for God to work through you.

We’ll cover Chapter 3 in the next episode, so stay tuned! If you haven’t already, grab your copy of Leadership as an Identity . This book will challenge and equip you to lead with humility and dependence on God. https://a.co/d/hcoWf8X

Welcome to a very special episode where I have the honor of introducing a show that I love, The Girl, Relax, and Trust God Podcast. This incredible new podcast is hosted by one of my mentees, Janique Price, and is designed for women who are ready to reclaim their peace and joy by placing their trust in God’s plan.

About the Podcast

The Girl, Relax, and Trust God Podcast is for the strong woman: the one who is always the listening ear, the advice giver, and the pillar for her loved ones. If you find yourself battling overthinking, busyness, perfectionism, or the stress of carrying a heavy mental load from countless responsibilities, then this podcast is for you. Janique Price has crafted each episode to speak directly to women who often show up for everyone but sometimes struggle to find rest for their own soul. Each week, Janique shares real-life stories, discusses meaningful topics, and dives into scripture, offering strategies and encouragement to help you strengthen your faith and let go of stress.

Episode: “Girl, Eliminate the Noise”

In this powerful episode, Janique discusses the importance of surrendering to God and disconnecting from the distractions of this world to truly find peace. Drawing inspiration from Mark 4:35-36, where Jesus retreats from the crowd, Janique emphasizes the necessity of leaving the noise behind to deepen your relationship with God. She highlights how fear and the need for control can prevent true surrender, leaving us feeling overwhelmed and exhausted. Janique also shares a practical framework called STOP, a simple method to help you refocus and reconnect with God amidst life’s chaos.

Key Takeaways from the Episode:

• Scriptural Foundation: Mark 4:35-36 serves as a reminder to leave the noise and distractions behind, just as Jesus did.
• The STOP Framework:
• S: Stop. Pause the physical movement to give your body and mind a chance to be still.
• T: Take a breath. Practice intentional breathing to regulate your nervous system.
• O: Observe. Take note of your thoughts and feelings, and be honest with yourself about what’s weighing on you.
• P: Pray. Speak God’s Word over your situation, and proceed with confidence knowing He is with you.
• Practical Advice: Janique provides actionable steps on how to limit distractions, such as putting your phone on "Do Not Disturb," setting boundaries, and intentionally seeking quiet time with God.

How to Listen and Subscribe

You can listen to The Girl, Relax, and Trust God Podcast on all major platforms. Make sure to subscribe, rate, and share the show with your friends and loved ones who need encouragement and a reminder to rest in God’s plan.

Episode Links

• Subscribe to the Podcast: https://redcircle.com/shows/girl-relax-and-trust-god

I’m so excited for you to experience this podcast.