We had planned to update and replay episodes all this month to help us take things a little slower for our anniversary. Well, we got of our 2 most popular shows out, but this week we decided to share some new content with you.

We want to give some encouragement and a little guidance to those of you who are struggling in the storm of your broken marriage. Whether you have been betrayed or you have broken trust, this episode will show you how to find peace and comfort through the praise and celebration of our amazing Redeemer and Lord, Jesus Christ.

We pray this blesses you!

Johnny and Emily

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It's been almost a year and a half since we first told our stories of sexual addiction and betrayal on our podcast. A lot has happened since then!

We are so very grateful for the recovery, healing, and growth that both of us have experienced since D-Day in 2018. It has been due to God's help, tons of hard work on our part, and a great support community.

To commemorate our 37th wedding anniversary, we are taking a little slower pace for the month of September. So, on today's episode, we are revisiting Johnny's story of how a young boy with hopes and dreams for a wonderful future ends up confessing to his wife of 31 years that he is a sex addict and an adulterer.

His painful story is tragic, but also beautiful because he knows the One who makes a way when there is no way. Jesus can make something beautiful out of the ashes of our lives if we let him. And we know it's true because he's done it for us. He can do it for you too!

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Johnny and Emily

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Episode 01. ”Why Are We Talking About Betrayal?” A Q&A with the Betrayed and the Betrayer

Episode 02. Her Story: My Husband Betrayed Me

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September is our anniversary month and we're celebrating by taking a break from creating new episodes this month, but rather updating and replaying a few of our most popular episodes.

Today we are revisiting Episode #2 Her Story: My Husband Betrayed Me, where Emily bares her soul to tell the story of Johnny's marital infidelity* fueled by pornography use. And although it was Not Her Fault in any way, she is not perfect and you will hear some of the ways she fell short in her life too. But God is bigger than any failure, heartbreak or trauma. He is the redeemer of the lost and the comforter of the broken-hearted. (*name changed for privacy)

Grab a spiced latte or some other yummy drink and settle in for a deep and personal story of a betrayed wife and the hope she found in Jesus.

We pray this blesses you,

Johnny and Emily

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Wives, do you have a desire for your husband to lead you and your family spiritually? Of course!

Husbands, are you at a loss for what that looks like and how you can show up for your wife in this area? Yeah, probably.

Unfortunately, in many Christian marriages, this is often a reality. A wife will take up the responsibility of being the spiritual head of the home because her husband isn’t stepping into that role.

When betrayal and addiction are revealed, reasons for his passivity become clear. After discovery, it may be necessary for a wife to temporarily take the lead until her husband achieves some recovery and healing, giving him the capacity and desire to lead his wife spiritually.

Today we are discussing 4 ways a husband can take up his God-given role to lead his wife in authentic spiritual leadership.

We pray this blesses you,

Johnny and Emily

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Episode 64. 5 Things A Betrayed Wife Needs From Her Recovering Husband (Series)

Episode 65. 5 Things A Betrayed Wife Needs…(Series) #1 See Her Pain

Episode 66. 5 Things a Betrayed Wife Needs...(Series) #2 Prioritize Her

Episode 67. 5 Things a Betrayed Wife Needs...(Series) #3 Keep Your Promises

Episode 68. 5 Things a Betrayed Wife Needs...(Series) #4 Emotional Maturity

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Wives, are you trying to communicate your feelings to your husband and somehow it always ends up being about him. Are just not feeling seen, heard and validated?

Men, is your wife explaining to you how she feels or coming at you with big emotions and you find yourself at a loss of how to respond?

This can happen in any marriage, but when sexual betrayal is a reality, the pain and frustration seem magnified to levels that threaten to break the marriage. But, when she finds her voice and he respond with emotional maturity, the healing can begin.

Today we are going to talk through examples of how a betrayed wife can clearly communicate what she needs and how a recovering husband can respond with emotional maturity.

Grab a cool drink and get ready as we unpack 4 areas where emotional maturity can be cultivated.

We pray this blesses you,

Johnny and Emily

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How much do you value keeping your word? And how does it make you feel when someone doesn't keep their word?

For a betrayed wife, it becomes even more important that her recovering husband keep his word. This new display of reliability provides the safety and security that she desperately needs in a time of confusion and broken trust. When he makes the effort to follow through on his promises, he's slowly rebuilding a solid foundation of trustworthiness that she can depend on.

Join us for this important discussion centered around the importance of keeping our word.

We pray this blesses you,

Johnny and Emily

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We all have priorities, whether we make them intentionally or they exist by default. At times our priorities can be misguided and cause pain for ourselves and for others. We also understand that priorities are important and it’s necessary to have them in the right order.

And for a betrayed wife, it’s imperative to know that she is a priority to her husband.

Today as we continue in our series, we will cover a wife’s need to feel she is more important to her husband than anyone or anything else on the planet. We will be outlining 4 ways a recovering husband can make this a reality for his wife.

So, grab a cool beverage, pop in your ear bud, and join us for this important discussion.

We pray this blesses you,

Johnny and Emily

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Following the revelation of sexual betrayal, a couple must decide whether to stay together or not. Choosing to stay married initiates a complex journey of recovery and healing, filled with challenges and triumphs.

However, the journey may be prolonged due to the betrayer's lack of understanding the needs of the betrayed. Initially, the focus is on the betrayer's recovery and repairing the damage. The betrayed spouse often struggles to feel safe and discern truth.

Today we will be speaking through the lens of a betraying husband and a betrayed wife because that is our story. We want to shed light on the needs a wife has after the devastation of learning her husband has been unfaithful. Needs she may not even realize she has and needs her husband is most likely completely clueless about.

Listen in as we share with you what we have learned on our own journey of healing from sexual betrayal.

We pray this blesses you,

Johnny and Emily

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Episode 64. 5 Things A Wife Needs From Her Recovering Husband (Series)

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