Becoming UnDone

By: Toby Brooks
  • Summary

  • Becoming UnDone: Where High Achievers Turn Setbacks into Comebacks. Join Dr. Toby Brooks as he guides you through the art of transforming unfinished goals into unstoppable growth, one inspiring story at a time.

    Achievers aim high, but to fall short is fundamentally human. Sometimes we fail. Sometimes we simply run out of time. Either way, it is what we do with the end of one chapter that can make all the difference in the next. Do we fall apart at the seams, coming undone to be forever branded as someone who lost? Or do we see the fuller picture, recognizing that the task remains unfinished and understanding that the end of a chapter isn't the same as the end of the story. Becoming UnDone is the podcast for those who dare bravely, try mightily, and grow relentlessly. Join author, speaker, and host Dr. Toby Brooks as he invites a new guest each episode to examine how high achievers can transform from falling apart to falling in place.

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Episodes
  • 107 | The Art of the Comeback: Lessons from Mike Tyson’s Rollercoaster Journey
    Nov 18 2024

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    Episode Summary

    Join Dr. Toby Brooks in this introspective episode of "Becoming UnDone" as he dives into the complex and riveting life story of Mike Tyson. Known for embracing failure, setbacks, and adversity, the podcast delves into how Tyson's early life of chaos and subsequent rise to become the youngest heavyweight boxing champion encapsulates resilience and redemption. Through Tyson's turbulent career, Brooks reflects on the lessons one can extract from his journey, creating a narrative filled with redemption, vulnerability, and growth.

    In the episode, Brooks emphasizes the duality of Tyson's life as both a story of unprecedented success and formidable downfall. With a history marred by personal struggles, Tyson's raw tenacity the episode highlights, serves as a powerful example of how pain, if channeled effectively, can be turned into a pressing force for good. Tyson's evolution, from facing incarceration to rediscovering his identity beyond the ring, represents an extraordinary tale of the human spirit's ability to reintegrate and reinvent itself. Through Tyson's journey, listeners can identify key life lessons applicable to their own experiences, solidifying this episode as both a profound analysis and motivational discourse.

    Key Takeaways

    • Pain as Power: Discover how personal pain, when harnessed effectively, can transform into a source of power and drive.
    • Support Systems Matter: Examine the critical role that support systems play in sustaining success and dealing with pressure.
    • Redemption Journey: Embrace the belief that it's never too late to change and redefine your narrative, as exemplified by Tyson's transformation.
    • Grounding Necessity: Understand the importance of staying grounded, especially when faced with rapid success, to prevent eventual collapse.
    • Self-Reflection and Growth: Gain insight into the necessity for self-reflection and confronting personal demons as a pathway to personal growth and reinvention.

    Notable Quotes

    • "I'm not the guy I used to be. I've learned that pain is just part of the process and that you don't grow without it." – Mike Tyson
    • "Your pain can be your power." – Toby Brooks
    • "Success without grounding is fragile." – Toby Brooks
    • "Redemption is always possible." – Toby Brooks
    • "Who's your Cuss? Who's keeping you grounded?" – Toby Brooks

    Resources

    • Referenced People: DJ Jazzy Jeff and the Fresh Prince, Lewis Howes, Joe Rogan
    • Events Mentioned: Fight with Buster Douglas, Bite fight with Evander Holyfield

    Encouraging listeners to explore these themes further, this episode of "Becoming Undone" is a testament to the resilience found through the human spirit. Tune in to gain more profound insights into using life's raw materials for personal transformation and growth. Subscribe and listen to past episodes to continue your journey of self-discovery and empowerment with Toby Brooks.

    Support the show

    Becoming Undone is a NiTROHype Creative production. Written and produced by me, Toby Brooks. If you or someone you know has a story of resilience and victory to share for Becoming Undone, contact me at undonepodcast.com. Follow the show on Facebook, Instagram, and LinkedIn at becomingundonepod and follow me at TobyJBrooks. Listen, subscribe, and leave us a review Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you get your podcasts.

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    22 mins
  • EP106 | Against the Grain: Why the Safe Path Holds You Back
    Nov 11 2024

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    Episode Summary

    In this episode of Becoming UnDone, host Toby Brooks dives into the core idea that traditional paths to success are not always the best or only options. Drawing from personal experiences and anecdotes, Toby explores the notion that real growth and fulfillment often lie in daring to carve your own path and questioning societal norms. This episode challenges listeners to step away from outdated blueprints of success and find their true selves through authenticity and self-discipline.

    Throughout the episode, Toby emphasizes the importance of discipline over motivation, arguing that routine commitment and setting personal goals are essential for achieving true satisfaction in life. The episode also highlights stories of individuals who have dared to pursue their own dreams and defy the expectation of conformity, including references to the inspiring film "Rudy." Brooks encourages listeners to engage with his community, share their experiences, and support one another in forging individualized paths to growth and fulfillment.

    Key Takeaways

    • Challenge Conventional Paths: Real success often requires stepping away from societal norms and creating a unique path that aligns with personal values and aspirations.
    • The Power of Discipline: Unlike fleeting motivation, discipline fuels sustained commitment toward goals and dreams, even when external results are not immediately visible.
    • Growth Beyond Rules: True growth involves questioning the status quo and being willing to rewrite the rules, especially when conventional wisdom does not resonate personally.
    • Authenticity Over Conformity: Building a life that fits one's own passions and dreams, rather than conforming to societal expectations, leads to deeper fulfillment and success.
    • Community Support: Engaging with supportive communities can enhance accountability and encouragement as individuals pursue unique and fulfilling paths.

    Notable Quotes

    • "Disciplined commitment to your own path can reveal a success that's fulfilling and uniquely yours."
    • "Zigging when the world is zagging takes guts."
    • "Motivation is a mirage; what you need is discipline."
    • "Life is too short to follow instructions that don’t align with your soul."
    • "Success isn't just about hard work. It’s about building a path that feels right, even if no one else understands it."

    Resources

    • Visit the Undone Facebook Group to share your experiences with the community: TheUnDone


    Tune in to this episode for an inspiring conversation on breaking free from the norm to achieve personal success. Don't miss upcoming episodes as Toby continues to explore transformative stories and insights on Becoming UnDone.

    Support the show

    Becoming Undone is a NiTROHype Creative production. Written and produced by me, Toby Brooks. If you or someone you know has a story of resilience and victory to share for Becoming Undone, contact me at undonepodcast.com. Follow the show on Facebook, Instagram, and LinkedIn at becomingundonepod and follow me at TobyJBrooks. Listen, subscribe, and leave us a review Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you get your podcasts.

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    19 mins
  • 105 | Creating the Impossible: The Stories Behind Rick Dobbertin’s Legendary Builds
    Nov 2 2024

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    About the Guest:

    Rick Dobbertin is a renowned engineer, fabricator, and entrepreneur known for his groundbreaking work in the field of custom car building and vehicular engineering. He gained fame in the 1980s for his work on high-performance pro street cars, including the iconic Nova and J2000 builds. Rick’s inventive spirit led him to create the Dobbertin Surface Orbiter, an amphibious vehicle made from a 1959 milk tanker that logged 33,000 miles across 28 countries. Currently, Rick runs Dobbertin Performance, a company specializing in high-performance automotive components.

    Episode Summary:

    In this riveting episode of "Becoming UnDone," host Toby Brooks interviews Rick Dobbertin, a legendary figure in the world of engineering and custom car creation. Known for his incredible innovations and transformative approach to vehicular design, Rick takes us on an exciting journey through his career – from his early fascination with mechanical objects to the creation of the legendary Dobbertin Surface Orbiter, and his radical shifts into various engineering territories. Engaging and insightful, the conversation illuminates how Rick's relentless curiosity and inventiveness propelled him into crafting vehicles that pushed boundaries and redefined possibilities.

    Rick's journey is a story of awe-inspiring achievements and personal trials as he narrates the challenges and triumphs of building some of the most audacious machines known in the automobile world. His ventures include the pioneering hot rods of the 1980s pro street movement, like the J2000 and the Nova, which featured cutting-edge designs and innovative engineering. The episode delves into Rick’s relentless pursuit of pushing the envelope, from the engineering marvel of his amphibious surface orbiter to his robust performance components business, imparting invaluable insights into the ingenuity and resilience that drive transformational life achievements.

    Key Takeaways:

    • Rick Dobbertin's transformative impact on the pro street car scene began with remarkable builds like the Nova and J2000, which pushed the boundaries of car engineering.
    • The Dobbertin Surface Orbiter project demonstrates Rick's ability to merge theoretical ideas with practical engineering, culminating in an amphibious vehicle capable of traversing both land and sea.
    • Rick shares how obsession and dedication can both fuel achievement and bring personal and financial challenges, shedding light on the labor-intensive creativity in automotive engineering.
    • Through reflective anecdotes, Rick discusses the evolution of his work, underlining the importance of balancing personal passions with professional and familial responsibilities.
    • Rick’s current venture, Dobbertin Performance, exemplifies his enduring commitment to innovation, offering high-performance automotive solutions worldwide.

    Notable Quotes:

    1. "I don't consider myself in the top… because I know what went into it, and I'm pretty much just an average person."
    2. "This is just to say I did it. And now I can say I did it because I did it."
    3. "If a little is good, then a lot is better and too much is just right."
    4. "Everybody should travel out of their own comfort zone."
    5. "Ignorance is blis

    Support the show

    Becoming Undone is a NiTROHype Creative production. Written and produced by me, Toby Brooks. If you or someone you know has a story of resilience and victory to share for Becoming Undone, contact me at undonepodcast.com. Follow the show on Facebook, Instagram, and LinkedIn at becomingundonepod and follow me at TobyJBrooks. Listen, subscribe, and leave us a review Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you get your podcasts.

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    1 hr and 11 mins

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