• Embracing New Beginnings: A Guide to Overcoming Cognitive Distortions and Cultivating Growth
    Jan 3 2024

    As we embrace the new beginnings that 2024 promises, I invite you to join me on a transformative journey toward self-love, growth, and patience. In the latest episode, we toss aside the usual script to equip you with four powerful cognitive distortion exercises. These are not just strategies but a lifeline to anchor your thoughts in the seas of positive manifestation. We start with the disassociation method, dissecting its origins and unraveling the often unseen impacts of "should statements" and self-criticism. This is a deep dive into the expectations that hold us back, and I'll be right there with you, sharing personal anecdotes and leading the way to a mindset where acceptance takes precedence over guilt.

    Have you ever felt trapped in a world of black and white where every outcome is either a resounding success or a crushing defeat? If so, this episode is your guide to breaking free from the shackles of polarized thinking. We'll explore how the relentless pursuit of perfection can lead to burnout, and how small victories are the unsung heroes in our quest for balance. Through candid discussions, we'll confront the patterns of negativity that cloud our judgment, offering up strategies to foster a healthier perspective that embraces both the ups and downs of life.

    As we round off this chapter, I'm excited to share insights on maintaining optimism and self-compassion as we step into each day. We'll look at how negativity can distort our relationships and self-perception, and I'll introduce you to techniques that cultivate a balanced viewpoint, celebrating the good alongside the challenges. So, take my hand as we embark on this part of the journey together, with the promise of more in-depth techniques to come, ensuring that your path forward is as fulfilling and enriching as possible. Join me, and let's set the stage for a year where growth is not just a goal but a vibrant reality.

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    52 mins
  • Olivia's Insightful Take on the Web of Thoughts
    Dec 30 2023

    Ever wondered how a single idea can be a tapestry of many intricate threads of thought? Join me and my insightful co-host Olivia as we unravel the complexity behind forming comprehensive ideas. Olivia brings a fresh perspective on our previous discussion about the 'cast net' of thoughts, providing a deeper understanding of how these connections shape our cognition. Her keen reflections reveal the power of conversation in enhancing knowledge.

    We're also thrilled to announce a big step for our community – our very first YouTube video is live! Recognizing the diversity in learning preferences, Olivia and I have branched out to include a visual dimension to our podcast, 'kerrie.chapman.holistictalks'. Whether you're a visual learner or someone who enjoys the subtlety of audio, we've got you covered. So, come along and choose your favorite way to absorb our discussions. There's something for everyone as we explore the realms of thought and connection in ways that resonate with every listener.

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    2 mins
  • Navigating the Tides of ADHD: Casting Nets of Resilience and Self-Discovery
    Dec 30 2023

    Casting the net wide, we set off on an expedition through the complex waters of ADHD and personal growth, guided by the seasoned hands of my commercial fishing past and the resilience of my mother's journey. This episode is a tapestry of memories and insights, where I unravel the profound impact of my upbringing and its role in sculpting the person I am today. As I recount the lessons learned from the chaotic yet enlightening waves of thought that have both challenged and shaped me, you'll discover how personal experiences can offer a compass for navigating the intricate patterns of our minds.

    Ever wondered how the threads of your thoughts are woven together? Imagine the intricate webbing of a fisherman's cast net, where each knot and twist represents the elements of your personality and decision-making. With a bit of guidance, I'll show you how to examine the knots of your own net, offering strategies to untangle the snarls that may be hindering your clarity and focus. Medication, for some, acts like a skilled hand guiding the yarn, creating a seamless pattern from what might otherwise be a jumbled mess. This is more than a metaphor; it's a reflection on how we can consciously organize our cognition, embrace our individuality, and stride towards a more structured self.

    As we reel in this episode, I extend a warm, weathered hand for you to join me in this ongoing exploration of self-improvement. Your stories, your struggles, and your successes are pivotal to this shared quest. By intertwining our experiences, we strengthen the net that holds our collective wisdom. So, cast your line into the conversation; each connection we make is another step towards understanding the vast ocean of our minds. Here's to the catch that awaits us in the tranquil, yet ever-moving sea of personal growth.

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    41 mins
  • Transforming Self-Doubt into Self-Empowerment
    Dec 30 2023

    Have you ever stood in front of a mirror, whispering words of encouragement to the reflection staring back at you? This episode is an echo of that intimate ritual, where we embrace the power of positive affirmations and the art of self-reflection. Drawing from Brené Brown's wisdom, we peel back the layers of gloss we often paint over life's challenges to reveal the authenticity beneath. We navigate the complexities of ADHD with grace, moving beyond mere coping mechanisms to discover strategies that empower us to flourish. Join me as we learn to disentangle ourselves from negative thoughts through 'simple disassociation' and treat our minds with the compassion they deserve.

    As we stitch together the fabric of our mental wellbeing, we confront the formidable adversary of addiction. Here, we explore the critical steps of rebuilding self-love, shifting perspectives, and the importance of accountability. Stripping away the self-deprecating language that so often taints our self-view, we reflect on the questions that stir unexplained anger and self-hatred. It's a journey through the valleys and peaks of self-improvement, armed with resilience and the survival instincts that propel us forward. For those eager to delve deeper, my inbox is open—let's continue the conversation. As we part ways for the night, let Olivia's and my wishes for warmth and encouragement settle around you like a comforting blanket, preparing you for the enlightening path that awaits in tomorrow's episode.

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    28 mins
  • Podcast Introduction
    Dec 29 2023

    Formally introducing Myself, The Host, Kerrie L. Chapman.
    A.W.A.
    My unmistakable mini-me, Co-Hosting, Olivia Chapman.

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