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In this episode, I’m diving into a topic that’s close to my heart—what happens when your missionary hasn’t fully repented before leaving and comes to realize it during their mission? I’ll share a personal story from my experience and talk about the uncertainty and fear when my son confessed to his mission president over a year into his service.

Here’s what I cover in this episode:

• The story of my son’s mission and how unresolved repentance weighed on him.
• How our brains love to fill in gaps, often jumping to worst-case scenarios.
• The idea of being an “80% repenter” versus a “100% repenter” and what that means for your missionary.
• Why it’s so important to create a safe space for your missionary to be honest, without fear or shame.
• Recognizing how our own negative bias as parents can influence how we handle these situations.
• Approaching priesthood leaders and how to have healthy, productive conversations when needed.
• Extending grace to yourself and your child during these tough moments.
• The power of co-regulation—helping to manage both your and your missionary’s nervous systems so you can support each other better.

I also discuss the importance of giving yourself credit and grace as a parent when things don’t go as planned. As missionaries and parents, we’re all learning, and this journey is an opportunity for growth—for both you and your child.

Finally, I’m excited to share that I’ll soon be offering a few free mini-coaching sessions. These are perfect for anyone who wants extra support as they navigate their missionary’s preparation, service, or return. Stay tuned for details on how to sign up!

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