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The Social Animal

The Hidden Sources of Love, Character, and Achievement

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The Social Animal

By: David Brooks
Narrated by: Arthur Morey
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With unequaled insight and brio, David Brooks, the New York Times columnist and bestselling author of Bobos in Paradise, has long explored and explained the way we live. Now, with the intellectual curiosity and emotional wisdom that make his columns among the most read in the nation, Brooks turns to the building blocks of human flourishing in a multilayered, profoundly illuminating work grounded in everyday life.This is the story of how success happens. It is told through the lives of one composite American couple, Harold and Erica—how they grow, push forward, are pulled back, fail, and succeed. Distilling a vast array of information into these two vividly realized characters, Brooks illustrates a fundamental new understanding of human nature. A scientific revolution has occurred—we have learned more about the human brain in the last thirty years than we had in the previous three thousand. The unconscious mind, it turns out, is most of the mind—not a dark, vestigial place but a creative and enchanted one, where most of the brain’s work gets done. This is the realm of emotions, intuitions, biases, longings, genetic predispositions, personality traits, and social norms: the realm where character is formed and where our most important life decisions are made. The natural habitat of The Social Animal. Drawing on a wealth of current research from numerous disciplines, Brooks takes Harold and Erica from infancy to school; from the “odyssey years” that have come to define young adulthood to the high walls of poverty; from the nature of attachment, love, and commitment, to the nature of effective leadership. He reveals the deeply social aspect of our very minds and exposes the bias in modern culture that overemphasizes rationalism, individualism, and IQ. Along the way, he demolishes conventional definitions of success while looking toward a culture based on trust and humility.The Social Animal is a moving and nuanced intellectual adventure, a story of achievement and a defense of progress. Impossible to put down, it is an essential book for our time, one that will have broad social impact and will change the way we see ourselves and the world.

©2011 David Brooks (P)2011 Random House Audio
Personal Success Social Classes & Economic Disparity Social Psychology & Interactions Human Brain Inspiring Economic disparity Social Anxiety Disorder

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"An uncommonly brilliant blend of sociology, intellect and allegory." (Kirkus)

“Authoritative, impressively learned, and vast in scope.” (Newsweek)

“As in [Bobos in Paradise] he shows genius in sketching archetypes and coining phrases. . . . In The Social Animal Mr. Brooks surveys a stunning amount of research and cleverly connects it to everyday experience.” (The Wall Street Journal)

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this was worthwhile as an exercise in reflecting on why we make the choices we do in life. it was interesting to note how many of our choices are influenced by our subconscious.

a book i wish i listened to when i was 17.

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It would be a poor decision to not listen to this

please do yourself a service and listen to this book. If you want to gain a deeper understanding of yourself and your mind go no further.

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fulfilling insight of the human life

I loved this book, it had a captivating way of telling l a story along with the required facts that provide a complex but more holistic view.

Much like the empty feeling you get after completing a long TV series was the feeling I got after the last sentence in book.

Would highly recommend

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Comprehensive insight on the human condition

The storytelling is fantastic. It made me understand the concepts while experiencing what the characters were going through in different situations.

HIGHLY RECOMMEND this to everyone who is interested in learning why we do the things we do, and how to learn more from our environment.

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amazing, interesting and informative

Would you consider the audio edition of The Social Animal to be better than the print version?

yes

What other book might you compare The Social Animal to, and why?

Brain Rules by John Medina. similar practical approach

What does Arthur Morey bring to the story that you wouldn’t experience if you had only read the book?

the perfect voice for the writer

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it made me think and apply situations to myself

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modern and informative view on us and social psychology. i enjoyed every minute

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Interesting and insightful

As a female reader I would question a few of the statements made, but overall a very interesting and insightful read into the human condition.

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Read this book immediately

An incredibly well written story that balances the nuances of human nature, socialisation, historical evidence and a lot of references to studies and statistics with a captivating life story of two people.

My heart melts. Read this book.

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The social human

The last chapter got me, you need to commit to this book if you start then stay with it to the end. I feel in love with the characters and went on the journey. It’s got every stat you have heard of and refferance to books there are of the human animal.
Worth the time!

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Interesting concept for a book - exploring different theories through a handful of central characters over a lifespan, BUT so sexist, American centric, judgemental, binary, misogynist, etc... that it was annoying to listen to and difficult to persist with at times. What a narrow, judgemental view of humanity...

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