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The Serious Business of Small Talk

Becoming Fluent, Comfortable, and Charming

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The Serious Business of Small Talk

By: Carol A. Fleming PhD
Narrated by: Carol Fleming, Pamela Lorence, Keith Norton
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Small talk is the single most important communication skill you can develop.

Carol Fleming wants to show you that small talk is not as “small” as you might think. It’s the foundation of every relationship, professional and personal. It is the sound of people reaching out to each other, searching for similarities, shared interests, goodwill, connections, and friendship. And it’s something we all do every day with people we know. It’s just the one little bit about strangers that throws some people off. Graceful social conversation can be learned, even by those requiring the smallest of baby steps.

Fleming covers the inner and outer aspects - from the right attitude to how to dress, move around, and introduce yourself. Most importantly, she lays out a series of simple, memorable conversational strategies that make it easy to go from “Nice weather we’re having” to a genuine, rewarding give-and-take. But she won’t tell you what to say. Believe it or not, you already have what you need inside you. She merely provides the keys to unlock it.

Small talk is the language of welcome, the extension of friendliness, the gracious acknowledgment of others, the kindly exchange of introductions and smiles, and the creation of a safe, courteous social space - and this is what has you terrified? After you listen to this audiobook, you’ll wonder what all the fuss was about.

©2018 Carol A. Fleming, PhD (P)2018 Carol A. Fleming, PhD
Communication & Social Skills Employment Personal Success Words, Language & Grammar Workplace Culture Career Business

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Helpful but woke

The author has some really good insights into socialising, and I would recommend this book for that reason. With that said, she talks about racism where it’s not needed to elaborate on how the psychology of “us and them” works, and reads a long poem at the start about how it’s “carefully taught”, which flies in the face of scientific literature. No one teaches a 6 month old to treat different races differently, they can’t even speak; it’s biologically ingrained.

The author also uses the excuse of social class differences as having prevented a working man from becoming close friends with a homeless man, however most homeless people are homeless because they are mentally ill or addicted to hard drugs after severe childhood trauma (read Dr. Gabor Maté’s book “In The Realm of Hungry Ghosts”). It is very sad that they are suffering, but they do commit crimes and can be dangerous and unpredictable to be around, especially when under the influence of drugs, so it’s entirely understandable these two didn’t become friends because of a sensible sense of self-preservation on the part of the working man.

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