The Imperfects

By: Hugh van Cuylenburg Ryan Shelton & Josh van Cuylenburg
  • Summary

  • We’re all imperfect. On this podcast, founder of The Resilience Project Hugh van Cuylenburg, his good friend Ryan Shelton, and only one of their brothers, Josh van Cuylenburg, talks to a variety of interesting people who vulnerably share their own struggles and imperfections, or expertly pass on their wisdom on the subject of imperfection. Whether it’s in The Vulnerabilitea House, The Academy of Imperfection, or with our very own psychologist, Dr Emily, The Imperfects are here to find some valuable takeaways we can all apply to our own imperfect lives.

    2024 Hugh van Cuylenburg, Ryan Shelton & Josh van Cuylenburg
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  • Little Boy Christmas - The Forgotten Son of Mr & Mrs Claus
    Dec 22 2024

    Quick heads up: Little Boy Christmas has a tenuous relationship with his parents, and therefore, this episode isn’t suited for kids.

    Have you ever wondered about Little Boy Christmas, the forgotten son of Santa and Mrs Claus?

    Nope, neither had we.

    That’s probably why he’s forgotten.

    Looking like an unbelievably shredded Dickensian orphan (you’re going to want to watch the YouTube for this one), Little Boy Christmas chats to Hugh, Ryan and Josh about the physical and psychological pressures of being in the most famous family in the world.

    A BIG thank you to Guy Montgomery who introduced us to Little Boy Christmas.

    All ad revenue from this episode will be donated to Guy Montgomery’s chosen charity of Auckland City Mission. Auckland City Mission responds to poverty, aiming to help people find permanent housing and food. If you’d like to donate, or check out what they’re about, follow this link - https://bit.ly/3VB0dfM

    🎧Things to listen to:

    • Mrs Claus - Santa’s Better Half - https://bit.ly/4gns2zX
    • Santa Claus - A Special Vulnerabilitea House - https://apple.co/40Y7HNs
    • Guy’s podcast - The Worst Idea of All Time - https://apple.co/3DkUYKI

    📺 Things to watch:

    • Guy Montgomery’s Guy Mont Spelling Bee - https://ab.co/4izbmay

    🎟️ Things to buy tickets to:

    • I’ve Noticed So Many Things, It’d Be Unfair To Keep Them To Myself tour
      • Australian Tickets - https://bit.ly/3DczzDx
      • NZ Tickets - https://bit.ly/49BCuC4

    See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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  • Michael Theo - Life on the Spectrum
    Dec 15 2024

    You may know Michael from Love on the Spectrum, or his podcast Mr A+, or even his appearance on Ellen – he’s done it all and has gained an incredible amount of wisdom on his journey so far.

    We’ve been doing this show for six years, and no-one has ever summarised it as well as Michael Theo: trying to be perfect is a wild goose chase.

    In this episode, Hugh, Ryan and Josh chat to Michael about how he found his voice after growing up as a non-verbal kid, and instils on the guys some advice on how to handle nerves (and do some proper improv).

    Michael, we had an absolute blast. We’ll see you for a Yowie sometime soon.

    If you want to watch this full episode on YouTube, follow this link: https://youtu.be/eVtYKdJUpVU

    🎧 Things to listen to:

    • Mr. A+ - https://apple.co/3C3kS5i
    • Fern Brady - Autistic in a Non-Autistic World - https://apple.co/48nT3Ax
    • Grace Tame - “Sexy, Scissoring, Autism!” - https://apple.co/404jXv7
    • Jackson Tozer - Don’t Give Up On Me - https://apple.co/3yHdawf
    • Jack Steele - Socials Anxiety - https://apple.co/41jNSjL
    • Janelle Booker - Living With ADHD - https://apple.co/41nL456
    • Santa Claus - A Special Vulnerabilitea House - https://bit.ly/40Y7HNs
    • Mrs Claus - Santa’s Better Half - https://apple.co/4gns2zX

    📺 Things to watch:

    • Love On The Spectrum - https://ab.co/48r5iwb
    • Austin - https://ab.co/4eYmvQl
    • Michael’s Interview on Ellen - https://bit.ly/4eXRYBX
    • Puss In Boots - The Last Wish - https://bit.ly/4foCuqF

    📱Things to check out:

    • Wable - https://www.hellowable.com

    See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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    1 hr and 4 mins
  • Layne Beachley - Surf’s Up… And Down
    Dec 8 2024

    Today we welcome into the studio 7 time world champion surfer, and all-round legend, Layne Beachley.

    Layne, who had the self-described ‘compassion of a tiger shark’ during her competition days, has lived an incredible journey to learn how to love others, and more importantly, herself.

    Upon discovering that she was adopted, Layne internalised a fear of rejection and intense need to prove herself.

    What’s one way to prove yourself, you may ask? Becoming a world champion, no matter the cost.

    In this episode, Hugh, Ryan and Josh talk to Layne about the narrative that she created for herself, and how this affected her self-worth, body image and relationships.

    There is SO MUCH good stuff in this episode, and we can’t wait for you to enjoy your day at the Beach(ley).

    Layne, you are an absolute legend. Thank you for your generous vulnerability.

    If you would like to watch this full episode on YouTube, follow this link - https://bit.ly/3VsnIrd

    ALSO if you would like to buy tickets to Josh’s gig (!!!!!) click here - https://bit.ly/3ZO6ojf

    📖 Things to read:

    • Awake Academy - Layne Beachley and Tess Brouwer - https://bit.ly/4fNThEh
    • Beneath the Waves - Michael Gordon with Layne Beachley - https://bit.ly/410jgU2
    • From Strength to Strength - Arthur C Brooks - https://bit.ly/3VCaZTD
    • Build the Life You Want - Arthur C Brooks and Oprah Winfrey - https://amzn.to/3ZpgFAK

    ☕️Places to get coffee (and find your laptop cover):

    • Aegyo Cafe - https://bit.ly/3BqMNMi

    See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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    1 hr and 27 mins

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amazing perspective we all need to take on

absolutely loved this episode.
thank you thank you thank you
such a great view and backed by science.
one more embrace

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Ben Crowe is great value 🤚

I got so much out of this 2-part podcast. All the usual good humoured banter and honest vulnerability from Hugh, Josh and Ryan and very useful insights and tools from Ben - so good I had to take notes 🤚Thank you

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Love it so so much!!!

super helpful for understanding myself and the people I'm surrounded by in everyday life situations 🤩 seriously INCREDIBLE!!!

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My favourite podcast

Not often you find something so honest and relatable that can have you crying, crying with laughter and pondering your thoughts all in the same minute. I tell everyone about The Imperfects and EVERYONE I’ve told have fallen in love too.

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yeeewwww

amazing stuff boys very well done and also very compelling love your work lads

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I always look forward to Mondays

I always look forward to Mondays when the next podcast drops. Content is always relatable and delivered in such a way how can people not be more comfortable in talking about their vulnerabilities 🤩

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My favourite podcast

Brilliant stories. So helpful. I love the vulnerabilitea house and hearing Dr Em revisiting past episodes. I am so glad I found this podcast.

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amazing, well worth a listen

so so so good, worth a listen, amazing story, grant has been thru so much

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