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The All-or-Nothing Marriage
- How the Best Marriages Work
- Narrated by: Mark Deakins
- Length: 8 hrs and 15 mins
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Publisher's Summary
"After years of debate and inquiry, the key to a great marriage remained shrouded in mystery. Until now...." (Carol Dweck, author of Mindset: The New Psychology of Success)
Eli J. Finkel's insightful and ground-breaking investigation of marriage clearly shows that the best marriages today are better than the best marriages of earlier eras. Indeed, they are the best marriages the world has ever known. He presents his findings here for the first time in this lucid, inspiring guide to modern marital bliss.
The All-or-Nothing Marriage reverse engineers fulfilling marriages - from the "traditional" to the utterly nontraditional - and shows how any marriage can be better.
The primary functions of marriage from 1620 to 1850 were food, shelter, and protection from violence; from 1850 to 1965, the purpose revolved around love and companionship. But today, a new kind of marraige has emerged, one oriented toward self-discovery, self-esteem, and personal growth. Finkel combines cutting-edge scientific research with practical advice; he considers paths to better communication and responsiveness; he offers guidance on when to recalibrate our expectations; and he even introduces a set of must-try "lovehacks".
This is a book for the newlywed to the empy nester, for those thinking about getting married or remarried, and for anyone looking for illuminating advice that will make a real difference to getting the most out of marriage today.
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Critic Reviews
“After years of debate and inquiry, the key to a great marriage remained shrouded in mystery. Until now. In his All-or-Nothing Marriage, Eli Finkel reveals the fascinating ways in which marriage has evolved and the things we can all do to help this all-important relationship flourish. You will definitely want to read this book.” (Carol Dweck, Stanford professor and author of Mindset: The New Psychology of Success)
“If you’ve ever wondered what science has to say about how marriage has changed over time and what makes for a great one, this is the book to read. Eli Finkel is one of the world’s leading experts on relationships, and his insights are both comprehensive and revealing.” (Adam Grant, author of Give and Take, Originals, and Option B, coauthored with Sheryl Sandberg)
“Eli Finkel has written an incredible analysis of the state of marriage and a useful guide for everyone trying to make their relationship work better. He also promised us cheeseburgers if we wrote this blurb. Please get those to us ASAP, Eli.” (Aziz Ansari and Eric Klinenberg, coauthors of Modern Romance)
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- Tinashe
- 22-10-2020
comprehensive and science-based
Great book that provides a comprehensive overview of the history of marriage in America. This important information grounds the rest of the book where suggestions and tips are provided. All of this is supported by scientific evidence from many perspectives that supports a clear set of opportunities to improve marriage and the joy and fulfillment of couples therein.
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- Anonymous User
- 20-04-2021
A new look at marriage for the 2 1st century.
Respecting marriage as a foundational institution, Finkel examines historical and modern ways that can practically assist marriages to both survive and even thrive. Engaging pragmatic and well researched.
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- Anonymous User
- 24-11-2020
Great
Found the start a bit slow, informative, but too drawn out. Particularly enjoyed the end. I’ll probably purchase a hard copy so I can look back on some of the tools more readily. I found the chapter set up a bit excessive. Overall a great book though.
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