Drs. Bev and Tom developed the Soul Healing Love Model to heal their own soul wounds from their traumatic pasts and see how these wounds were triggered in their marriage causing conflict, mistrust and blame. The model healed their ailing marriage and many others as they have used it in their counseling clinic for over 20 years and taught it in 28 states and across the globe. Soul Healing Love is both spiritual and practical in helping couples see how their past wounds negatively affect their marriage, how God 's love can heal those wounds, how to understand themselves better, listen with empathy, reconcile differences, resolve conflict and foster forgiveness. There are 10 practical, easy-to-do tools and exercises that help couples in a process of healing and restoration, along with real-life stories of couples who have used the model and restored their marriages to wholeness. It is an easy-to-digest book in a conversational style that breaks down complicated concepts in brain healing so that they are easy to understand and most importantly easy to DO! It is helpful for dating, engaged, and married couples. If you are in the deep end of the ocean in your marriage it is a powerful, healing life preserver.