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She Comes First

A Guide for Sassy Women Who Want to Get Back in Control of Their Life

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She Comes First

By: Brian Nox
Narrated by: Jerod McBrayer
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An empowering audiobook about standing your ground in dating, in marriage, in your career, and anywhere else.

As an author and a coach who has been helping women for more than a decade, I noticed some women were in trouble, and not just in their relationships. Some had unfulfilling jobs, didn't get paid what they were worth, had always dreamt of starting their own business but never did, felt lonely even though they had a husband and kids.... The list goes on and on. So many women try to be the perfect girlfriends, wives, mothers, friends, sisters, colleagues, business owners, bosses, and more. They love to serve and want to succeed in the many roles they have to play. They are compliant, even to the people who don't really deserve that kind of treatment. They give it all they have, every single day.

Regardless of their tremendous efforts, some women get little in return. They feel used. They get men that keep flaking out, careers that don't feel meaningful, and possibly a body that starts to feel and look more and more tired. Did you ever notice that burnout tends to afflict women much more often than men? There's a reason for that, as you'll learn.

This should stop.

Some women seem to have found a loophole, a backdoor in the current system. There are women out there who have designed the life they live. I call these women high-value women. This value has nothing to do with money. It turns out the high-value woman follows a set of strategies and principles. I'll share them with you throughout this audiobook.

©2017 Brian Nox (P)2017 Brian Nox
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Inspirational

I love this book in general! there are bits that I may not completely agree with Brian, but overall very inspiring. I am going to take a few advices from the book, such as writing down personal mission statement.

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i loved this book

i loved this book. So many great tips for any occasion or circumstance.
very interesting.
highly recommend.

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The irony

This is definitely written by a male, with references to the man “helping out sometimes” with household labour, assuming that household labour is a woman’s role. As well as many suggestions that it is a woman’s role to be constantly modifying herself to attract a man. Deflecting responsibility from the male still/again.
The irony is real in this book.
The overarching patriarchal attitude underpinning each concept in this book is the only thing deserving of five stars, but it really has no place in the empowerment of women. It will only serve the purpose of keeping them locked in the same repressed state.

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