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She Comes First

The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman

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She Comes First

By: Ian Kerner
Narrated by: Ian Kerner
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""She Comes First is quite simply the best guide to oral sex out there."" —AskMen.com

The essential guidebook to oral sex, She Comes First offers a radical new philosophy for pleasuring women

As women everywhere will attest, men are ""ill-cliterate."" But in the pages of She Comes First, the mystery of female satisfaction is solved, and the tongue is proven mightier than the sword. According to Ian Kerner—sex therapist and evangelist of the female orgasm—oral sex isn't just foreplay, it's coreplay, and is simply the best way to lead a woman through the entire process of arousal time and time again.

Fun and informative, She Comes First is an encyclopedia of female pleasure, detailing dozens of tried-and-true techniques for consistently satisfying a woman and ensuring mutual sexual fulfillment.

©2004 Ian Kerner; (P)2005 HarperCollins Publishers, Inc. Education Human Sexuality Personal Development Psychology Psychology & Mental Health Sexual & Reproductive Health Sexual Health Health
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O like the structure and guidance and the time to slowly build up the why and the how. I didn't like the voice, it would be better a more sexy or emotional voice in the 2 part. The voice is too flat for the topic

Very useful to know how to improve in the art of sex

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Another example for authors shouldn't narrate their own books. Very dry and methodical. That's not how hot sex works in my life

Very dry

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So he didn't really have any excuses!

Very helpful for the timid adventurer, the naive but dedicated and the motivated master of the bedroom.

More puns than you can shake a stick at (lolz - sorry) but insightful and illuminating for theose who find themselves pleasure illiterate.

You don't have to follow the instructions to at least broaden your horizons so worth a go even if you don't think Oral Sex is going to be the thing for you. Just the geography lesson helps!

Our therapist gave this to my husband...

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the book was great I didn't like the guys voice tho 😕, the last hour of the book is best

great information

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I learned many nuances. The tips were great, the tone playful and the puns appreciated.

Clitoral Heads Up

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