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  • Not My Father's Son

  • A Family Memoir
  • By: Alan Cumming
  • Narrated by: Alan Cumming
  • Length: 6 hrs and 27 mins
  • 4.8 out of 5 stars (654 ratings)

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Not My Father's Son

By: Alan Cumming
Narrated by: Alan Cumming
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Publisher's Summary

Alan Cumming grew up in the grip of a man who held his family hostage, someone who meted out violence with a frightening ease, who waged a silent war with himself that sometimes spilled over onto everyone around him. That man was Alan's father, Alex Cumming.

Alex was the dark, enigmatic heart of Cumming family life. But he was not the only mystery. Alan's maternal grandfather, Tommy Darling, had disappeared to the Far East after the Second World War. The last time Alan's mother saw her father she was eight years old. When she was 13, the family was informed that he had died in an accidental shooting.

Curious to explore this second mystery, Alan committed to filming an episode of the BBC's Who Do You Think You Are? Then out of the blue, his father, who Alan and his brother had not seen or spoken to for more than a decade, called. He had a secret he had to share, one that would shock his son to his very core and set in motion a journey that would change Alan's life forever.

At times suspenseful, at times deeply moving, but always brave and honest, Not My Father's Son is a powerful story about embracing the best aspects of the past and triumphantly pushing the darkness aside.

©2014 Alan Cumming (P)2014 Canongate Books Ltd

Editorial reviews

Tremendously moving and eloquently written, Alan Cumming’s Not My Father’s Son is a brutally honest memoir of the extraordinary life he has led. In this autobiography audiobook edition of his novel, Cumming narrates through the journey that has been his life - from a young boy with an abusive father to the icon he is today. Heartfelt, inspirational and awakening, Cumming’s story is one that stays with the listener long after the final word is spoken. This book is not just for fans of this incredible man but for anyone who is touched by the emancipation of a child from the grasps of a violent beginning. Available now from Audible.

Critic Reviews

"Equal parts memoir, whodunnit and manual for living, Not My Father's Son is a beautifully written, honest look at the forces of blood and bone that make us what we are, and how we make ourselves. I was completely sucked in." (Neil Gaiman)
"What a shattering, compelling and extraordinary story Alan Cumming has to tell. And he does so with such style and grace . . . Beautifully and cunningly structured, Not My Father's Son is one of the most memorable, heart-stopping autobiographies I have ever read." (Stephen Fry)
"Do you know the old line "I laughed, I cried, it became a part of me"? Alan Cumming's moving memoir Not My Father's Son is all that and more. This is a beautiful book-sad, funny, haunting, surprising, suspenseful, gut-wrenching, endearing. It will linger inside of you long after you turn the final page." (Harlan Coben, author of New York Times bestsellers Missing You and Six Years)
"In beautiful, honest, arresting prose, he offers a tale you'll never forget. A real diamond of a book." (Andrew O'Hagan)
"A clear-eyed, often moving account of both his terrifying childhood and his recent attempts to come to terms with his past [. . .] Not My Father's Son moves elegantly and with an occasional dash of humour between Cumming's childhood and the revelations of the more recent past [. . .] memorable." ( Chicago Tribune)
"One of the most fun people in show business" ( Time)
"Cumming's eccentric style and assured voice shine brightly on every page, while escorting readers and fans on a memorable journey that is simultaneously insightful, brave, moving, and witty." ( Book List)
"Equal parts memoir, whodunnit and manual for living, Not My Father's Son is a beautifully written, honest look at the forces of blood and bone that make us what we are, and how we make ourselves. I was completely sucked in." (Neil Gaiman)
"What a shattering, compelling and extraordinary story Alan Cumming has to tell. And he does so with such style and grace.... Beautifully and cunningly structured, Not My Father's Son is one of the most memorable, heart-stopping autobiographies I have ever read." (Stephen Fry)
"Do you know the old line 'I laughed, I cried, it became a part of me?' Alan Cumming's moving memoir Not My Father's Son is all that and more. This is a beautiful book-sad, funny, haunting, surprising, suspenseful, gut-wrenching, endearing. It will linger inside of you long after you turn the final page." (Harlan Coben, author of New York Times best sellers Missing You and Six Years)

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A beautiful story, wonderfully read

This book was so touching, and Alan is a bit of a writer. His poetic descriptions of his surroundings and his effortless shift between then and now were a joy to listen to, not least because of his lovely, mellifluous voice.

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Left me wanting more

What a brave man to have come through all that cruelty and survived . I won’t say unharmed you couldn’t possibly. Thank god he had a lot of help and now has a happy life. Good luck Alan

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Fabulous book couldn't put it down

Unexpected story of Alan's life, beautifully read by Alan with his wonderful voice, full of emotion and so real. I believe this would have been a very difficult book to write. Thank you for letting us into you life. Heartbreaking and fascinating

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Eye opening and refreshingly honest

Alan's story keeps you wanting to read/hear more and gives you such insight to his life experiences. I cried and laughed along the way, thanks for sharing.

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awesome

i loved it. he told the story so well. he was beautiful to listen to. awesome!

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inspiring

Just goes to show everyone has a story and it's how we learn to deal and acknowledge and move on that makes us all unique! thank you Alan for sharing...

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Capativating, extremely well written

Loved this book from start to finish. Alan Cumming's narration was amazing, filled with though & the chapters just flowed beautifully. I will have to listen to this book again it was wonderful

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outstanding!

Alan Cumming I love you more.

wow wot an amazingly strong story, so many parts I can relate to or empathize with.

I will read this again at least once maybe even twice. I'm wiping tears of relief and happiness for you and your family. huggs to you all.

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Engrossing, funny, sad, brave

Alan Cummin's narration brings this story to life. I have had such a run of emotions listening to this. I felt he was telling me his story over a drink in a quiet bar, (or even an airport lounge,) and I gave him every ounce of attention. I did not waver from listening to and digesting every word. Thank you Alan for telling your story, I do hope I meet you one day in an Airport lounge.

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Fantastic Alan Cumming

I loved this book and the way Alan read it. I was sad sometimes but happy most, and for him to find his grandfather and forgive his father was excellent. Well done Alan and hope you are happy and well Jo x 2/2/2022

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