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Love Life

How to raise your standards, find your person and live happily (no matter what)

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Love Life

By: Matthew Hussey
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An essential set of tools and principles for healing your heart, finding love, and loving life.

Finding love can be hard. Being single can feel even harder. In Love Life, world-renowned coach and New York Times bestselling author Matthew Hussey provides a practical roadmap for letting go of past relationships, overcoming the fear of getting left behind, and finding the love we want.

Sometimes it feels like life and love are working against us. Just finding someone we like can be a struggle. Even when we do, we often find they’re not ready, or they want different things. Then there’s the internal fears and anxieties that lead us to self-sabotage—the ones that make us indulge the wrong behavior, hold back from expressing our needs for fear of losing someone, or overinvest in people and lose ourselves in the process. Love Life sheds light on these common patterns and how to overcome them, by showing us how to adopt new standards, elegantly communicate them, and develop the deepest levels of confidence that underpin them. Like many of us, Hussey has gone through major life changes over the past decade, and he opens up about his experiences, vulnerabilities, and mistakes.

Love Life is about doing love better. More than a book about romantic relationships, Love Life shows us how to take control of each of the major relationships in our lives: our relationship with others, our relationship with ourselves, and our relationship with life itself.

Our love lives have the power to elevate or eradicate the adjacent joy in our lives. Love Life sets you on the path to finding the love of your life, while deepening your love for life.

©2024 Matthew Hussey (P)2024 HarperCollins Publishers
Love, Dating & Attraction Marriage & Long-Term Partnerships Personal Success Self-Esteem Inspiring

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“Vulnerable, honest, and witty, this book is my number one recommendation for anyone looking for love. This book is perfect for anyone looking for actionable wisdom and a path to reconnecting with themselves. Love Life is a gift we all deserve!” —Drew Barrymore

“An insightful and practical guide to more compassionately understanding the deeper traumas that our relationships often reveal. Love Life can help each of us build a more fulfilling relationship with ourselves and all those around us.” —Dr. Nicole Lepera

“A must-read for anyone seeking to regain control of their love life, confidence, and happiness. Matthew is attuned to human behavior, and his coaching comes from a deep place of observation and care. He has now poured all that insight and experience into this masterful piece of work.” —Jay Shetty

“Whether you’re struggling with negative dating patterns, healing from heartbreak, or looking to create lasting confidence, this book is a must-read. It’s an essential guide not just for those looking for love, but also for those who want to find happiness even while on the search for it.” —Mel Robbins

“Matthew Hussey has written THE relationship book for everyone—searching, single, committed, or heartbroken! This book is not a simplistic recipe for finding love, but an authentic road map for being accountable to ourselves. Follow the guidance in this book, and you will have the tools to steer clear of unhealthy relationships, squelch those voices that tell you that you are not enough, give yourself permission to speak your truth, and find the magic within you.” —Ramani Durvasula, PhD

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Relatable and Practical Relatuonship Advice

An excellent read! Not just for singles but also those already in a relationship. Matthew offers practical advice that's relatable and non-judgemental. Highly recommend.

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Comprehensive and compassionate

I loved this read. I feel armed with valuable tools and fresh insights to light my way.

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prospective

a great and helpful reframing of prospectives around relationships and how we view ourselves as creative creators in our journey, thank you Mathew

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Uplifting, real and motivating

One of the best books I’ve listened to, and going to listen to it again. It was perfect that Matthew narrated it. It expands on much I’ve listened to and learnt, evolving thinking and opening my mind to others and empathy. Especially impactful is how Matthew shares and shows how much of what we do and think is all up to us, we can make the changes we want and he inspires in such a positive, and empowering way. I have loved learning from Matthew and his podcasts and am so grateful for his work in helping people in their lives and love through that and this amazing new book. Thank you Matthew I would definitely recommend this book!!

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Delicious

Matthew took a bizarre concoction of ingredients and created a book to nourish the mind, heart and soul.

My compliments to the chef.

I would definitively recommend Love Life and will indulge in a second helping.

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amazing

one of the most useful and inspiring books I've EVER read, I can't imagine anyone it wouldn't help!

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Mathew’s model of self love

All the relationship advice was good as always but the last chapter of his book about self love was a new, relatable and encouraging way to look at self love. If you can’t read the whole book then I suggest reading the last chapter at least for everyone

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A gift, to your heart, that you never knew it needed.

This is unlike any self development book you'll ever read.

Something permanent happens to us after we experience having our heart broken for the first time. In some way it's like we explode internally. It's a kind of unique disaster that forces us to ask Why to a lot of questions we hadn't given much thought about before.

I discovered Matthew Hussey on YouTube, years ago, while I was trying outrun my heartache by figuring out how to dive into, yet another, unhealthy relationship to someone I was besotted with.

It's only now that I've realised, more than two years later, after finishing this book for the second time, just how much of my behaviour was being fuelled by my need to avoid any and all uncomfortable feelings. And how, through all those 'Why's, my perspective on love, has completely changed.

For anyone who had to grow up faster than they felt ready for, at whatever stage of life you happen to be in right now, I highly recommend this book. It's like receiving a gift from yourself that you never knew you needed.

Learning how to love well is a lifelong journey, Matthew has a way of explaining the abstract when it comes to how we relate to love and makes it relatable; which makes it feels less like a novel and more like you're having a conversation.
His unique vulnerability and passion hits a chord that's hard to describe until you're experiencing it for yourself.

You'll laugh, cry and have an endless number of extremely satisfying lightbulb moments. But more than anything, you'll discover a completely new part of yourself, and that particular adventure will be worth more to you than you could ever have imagined.

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A must read

Matthew speaks straight to the soul - a must read if you feel you’re missing a piece in life and want to find the magic again within yourself

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Refreshing, restorative and real.

I’m only a couple of chapters in and already feeling bolstered and heartily encouraged. So grateful for Matthew’s thoughts and words - and the heart he puts in! I am coming out of a hard couple of years (hopefully!) and looking to fall back in love with my life, so here goes!

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