My therapy

Took me a bit to get through through the first chapters but after wow.. I could not stop listening . Really put into perspective of how I was feeling , the thoughts . A different perspective to have in order to heal… wish I knew about this book when I was raw and fresh within my separation.. but years afters being a chump second time around really helped !! Thank you .

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Gain a life

This book was exactly what I needed to read. Even though I wasn’t married to my cheater it was still relevant. I laughed and cried with the narrator. It was everything I needed to hear. It reminded me that I get to choose how this chapter of my life defines me and how it will be written. It’s a must read for anyone that was cheated on.

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best read ever

I hung onto every word the narrator uttered. recommended to anyone who has been cheated on.

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A powerful book which has saved many lives!

With the tools, insight and encouragement contained in this book, a chump can rid themselves of the cheater and start to gain life free from the abuse. It is a refreshing voice which confronts the ingrained narrative surrounding cheating. Chumps can go from the devastating realisation that they're trauma bonded to their cheater, to the empowering position of leaving, knowing their worth and finding peace in a new life without the manipulation.

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The only affair recovery book you need

This book will help you find your power in what feels like a powerless situation.
Written with humour and compassion providing you with much needed guidance on how to heal and get your agency back after having your heart broken. I am so grateful for this book, I have listened to it 3 times!

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Get over it!!!

If you need that push back into reality then this book is a must. The writer's focus is on self help and not self pity. I keep coming back to this on my not so good days and it puts me back on track again. Totally recommend to help "get over it" .

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Healing and a good punch in the face

After being with my fiance for 10 years, I could feel the love sadly slipping away. We met at a young age and are still young, I truly loved her and maybe do still- but after this book I can see the other side. Honestly, this Is a must for survivors of infidelity - everyone is an individual and will heal in whatever way suits them, but the advice in this book is so "to the point" that it really is gut wrenchingly beautiful, like my title says: a good punch in the face.

The Author is sassy and unforgiving and the reader reflects that in her tone, truly a calming but ferocious voice. Please listen to this, it will guide you, it will empower you and it will make you feel not so alone.

you will survive

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Real and no nonsense

The way it is written and delivered is a no nonsense approach to being cheated on and how to move on.

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A must read even if you decide to reconcile

Even if you ultimately decide to stay in the marriage, there is a lot to learn from this. There is heaps of practical advice about how not to get fucked over again.

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Path to truth and light

Excellent. Humorous and insightful with clear direction and empathetic tone. Highly recommended to anyone who has faced infidelity

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