Wonderful new friend, you’re in the right place if you have trouble meeting quality partners, if you can’t get out of your head, if you’ve made so many relationship mistakes that you can’t trust yourself anymore, if opening your heart up vulnerably to another scares the shit out of you, if you fall in love too fast and end up pushing that person away.

You may be confused about when to stay and work on the relationship and when to know it’s not going anywhere and leave. You may be deeply afraid of getting hurt again, unsure if you will survive the pain yet yearning to connect on all levels with someone who really gets you and gets you going.

Coach Allana Pratt knows how you may feel: Two divorces and one hell of a custody battle later, Allana was still feeling like crap because she kept seeking her worth searching for "The One", be it a lover, a bigger bank account, a smaller butt...anything on the outside so as to not face, feel, and heal on the inside.

Now, after working with thousands of men, women, and couples, Allana has discovered how to be totally okay being authentically you, instead of hiding parts that you deem unworthy, because you’ve been rejected in the past. In each chapter, Allana shares new points of view and proven paths to heal subconscious wounds. She pulls back the curtain and explains why seeking "The One" is getting you opposite results. Then she’ll rewire you by teaching you how to become "The One" who is brilliant and beautiful, which ironically is the key to finding and keeping an ideal partnership!

Allana will teach you the steps she took and she takes her clients through that awaken your capacity for deep, true, intimate connection with another, by starting with yourself.