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  • Confessions of a Fairy’s Daughter

  • Growing Up with a Gay Dad
  • By: Alison Wearing
  • Narrated by: Alison Wearing
  • Length: 7 hrs and 20 mins
  • 4.7 out of 5 stars (3 ratings)

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Confessions of a Fairy’s Daughter

By: Alison Wearing
Narrated by: Alison Wearing
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Publisher's Summary

National best seller (The Globe and Mail)

Finalist for the Edna Staebler Award for Creative Non-Fiction (2014)

Longlisted for the RBC Taylor Prize (2014)

A moving memoir about growing up with a gay father in the 1980s, and a tribute to the power of truth, humour, acceptance and familial love.

Alison Wearing led a largely carefree childhood until she learned, at the age of 12, that her family was a little more complex than she had realized. Sure her father had always been unusual compared to the other dads in the neighborhood: he loved to bake croissants, wear silk pajamas around the house, and skip down the street singing songs from Gilbert and Sullivan operettas. But when he came out of the closet in the 1970s, when homosexuality was still a cardinal taboo, it was a shock to everyone in the quiet community of Peterborough, Ontario - especially to his wife and three children.

Alison’s father was a professor of political science and amateur choral conductor, her mother was an accomplished pianist and marathon runner, and together they had fed the family a steady diet of arts, adventures, mishaps, normal frustrations and inexhaustible laughter. Yet despite these agreeable circumstances, Joe’s internal life was haunted by conflicting desires. As he began to explore and understand the truth about himself, he became determined to find a way to live both as a gay man and also a devoted father, something almost unheard of at the time. Through extraordinary excerpts from his own letters and journals from the years of his coming out, we read of Joe’s private struggle to make sense and beauty of his life, to take inspiration from an evolving society and become part of the vanguard of the gay revolution in Canada.

Confessions of a Fairy’s Daughter is also the story of “coming out” as the daughter of a gay father. Already wrestling with an adolescent’s search for identity when her father came out of the closet, Alison promptly “went in,” concealing his sexual orientation from her friends and spinning extravagant stories about all of the “great straight things” they did together. Over time, Alison came to see that life with her father was surprisingly interesting and entertaining, even oddly inspiring, and in fact, there was nothing to hide.

Balancing intimacy, history and downright hilarity, Confessions of a Fairy’s Daughter is a captivating tale of family life: deliciously imperfect, riotously challenging, and full of life’s great lessons in love. Alison brings her story to life with a skillfully light touch in this warm, heartfelt and revelatory memoir.

Bespeak Audio Editions brings Canadian voices to the world with audiobook editions of some of the country’s greatest works of literature, performed by Canadian actors.

©2013 Alison Wearing (P)2020 Bespeak Audio Editions

Critic Reviews

“Truth - even when it was brutal when first disclosed more than thirty years ago - becomes an interesting story with time. It becomes art that engages people; that makes them laugh; that resonates with their own untold stories. It can heal....In Confessions of a Fairy’s Daughter, Wearing deftly picks apart the complex knots of family - the love, the adventure, the myth, the hurt, the betrayal.” (Sarah Hampson, The Globe and Mail)

“[Wearing’s] family’s long journey from turmoil to acceptance comes to vivid life in Wearing’s new memoir.... An engaging and poignant account.” (Andrea Gordon, Toronto Star)

“A loving tribute to [Wearing’s] dad and a touching coming-of-age story in and of itself...A tenderly honest and notably humorous account.” (Winnipeg Free Press)

“Part memoir, part history book, part diary and all parts heart. Alison Wearing weaves a tale that celebrates the complexities of who we are and the families we hold close. Confessions of a Fairy’s Daughter is painful, tender, poignant and - most important - beautifully honest.” (Brian Francis, author of Fruit)

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How can one review a such a book! Prose as poetry. From the opening lines to the last word? Sheer literary bliss. The narration, 'theatre' at its best.

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