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Come As You Are: Revised and Updated

The Surprising New Science That Will Transform Your Sex Life

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Come As You Are: Revised and Updated

By: Emily Nagoski PhD
Narrated by: Emily Nagoski, Nicholas Boulton
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A revised and updated edition of Emily Nagoski’s game-changing New York Times best seller Come As You Are, featuring new information and research on mindfulness, desire, and pleasure that will radically transform your sex life.

For much of the 20th and 21st centuries, women’s sexuality was an uncharted territory in science, studied far less frequently - and far less seriously - than its male counterpart.

That is, until Emily Nagoski’s Come As You Are, which used groundbreaking science and research to prove that the most important factor in creating and sustaining a sex life filled with confidence and joy is not what the parts are or how they’re organized but how you feel about them. In the years since the book’s initial publication, countless women have learned through Nagoski’s accessible and informative guide that things like stress, mood, trust, and body image are not peripheral factors in a woman’s sexual well-being; they are central to it - and that even if you don’t always feel like it, you are already sexually whole by just being yourself. This revised and updated edition continues that mission with new information and advanced research, demystifying and decoding the science of sex so that everyone can create a better sex life and discover more pleasure than you ever thought possible.

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©2015, 2021 Emily Nagoski, Ph.D. All rights reserved. (P)2021 Simon & Schuster, Inc. All rights reserved.
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Must read for everybody

Yes there were a lot of metaphors, and yes this was just a big therapy session. BUT! It was a very cheap and very effective therapy session and I always find metaphors very helpful when in session. This book is fantastic, the content is so important, and everyone should read it.

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Wish this book had been around 40 years ago!

Everyone can benefit from the information in this book to make understand their own sexuality, their partners, or their friends. Educative, insightful, and reassuring!

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I am perfect just the way I am

This helped me understand myself and my partner for the rest of our lives

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Every daughter should be reading this book

Loved it... I remember getting a sex education book from my mum when I was a teen. It was written in a way that was informative in terms of what differences were and it taught missionary position and birth control. I would say to parents that have girls, this is the book they should get. Obviously it would need to be age appropriate but it is an incredible book.

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Unbelievable!

Incredible life changing book. The only regret I have is that I am only reading this book now.

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I wish I had read this sooner!

I am normal!
This book has completely changed how I think about my sexual function. I wish I knew this years ago.
So much gratitude to Emily.
Every girl and woman should know what is in this book. And men, too, for that matter.

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Must read

Such an important book!!!!
Nagoski’s writing style makes the science easy to understand and relatable.
I highly recommend

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A must, no matter your experience

I leaned a bunch about myself and my partner. I strongly recommend everyone reads/listens.

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This book should be read by everyone

This book is about much more than sex or orgasms. It is about understanding how our brains work and how this plays into our relationship with ourselves and others. It tells how media and common cultures around the world misrepresent how our bodies work, often to our detriment. Men, women and everyone in between would benefit from the understanding this books brings.

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Every woman (and man) should read this book!

What a great, easy to understand explanation of the science of sexuality, pleasure, body image and stress. Well thought out, put together and read. Love, Love, Love!

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